I’ve had a few girlfriends complain that their partners are too gentle, too “careful” with them when it comes to foreplay and sex. Women don’t want to be manhandled… or do we?
I don’t know if people use the word “ravish” the way they used to, but it describes the way a lot of ladies want to be treated by their lovers.
Merriam Webster provides the following definitions:
a: to seize and take away by violence
b: to overcome with emotion (such as joy or delight)
Your lover may like it a little rough, but forget the violence. Think “passion” when you want to ravish a woman. Here are some suggestions that you can try that would fit the bill.
5 Ways to Ravish Your Lover
- Undress Her. Why don’t men do this anymore? It’s so hot and can make a woman wet with anticipation. Take your time, mix in some light foreplay of kissing and caressing.
- Give Her Oral. If you haven’t mastered the basics, then get to work on this skill. A man who is confident with his tongue is a most coveted lover. If she knows you love going down, it helps her relax and enjoy it to its fullest.
- Pay attention to Her Entire Body. If your main goal is to stick it in, you probably won’t see your date again. Treat her body like a map, and begin exploring every nether region. Lovers who knew every inch of me are burned forever in my mind.
- Carry Her to the Bed. This may be physically challenging or impossible, but if you can lift a woman and carry her to the bedroom, and then throw her down on the bed, do it! It’s hot and animalistic.
- Give Her a Massage. This is again about getting to know her whole body. A lot of women love the sensuality of massage, and some of us love watching “massage porn” because we only dream of a super sex massage. Make this fantasy come true for someone.
If you like kink, you can always add elements of BDSM to these suggestions.
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