Most women love foreplay because it helps build arousal slowly, leading to a more intense orgasm. If your lady also likes kink, you can go a little further.
Kinky Foreplay Ideas
Try these BDSM foreplay ideas to get her in the mood for next-level sex.
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1. Chastity belt.
Have her wear one of these to deny access to her sweet spot. Now go about turning her on with sensual kisses, rubbing and massaging different areas of her body, licking and sucking her nipples, and gentle caresses up and down her thighs.
Wait until she begs for you to set her free.
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2. Hot lube forplay.
This form of kinky foreplay feels amazing. Warming lubes add a little zip and feel oh so good on a pussy and anywhere else you want to pay attention to.
A good butt massage can feel good with warm slippery squeezing and kneading.
3. Nipple clamps.
As someone who loves breast play, these clamps can give you a constant sensation, and they look sexy. I like to wear adjustable clamps with jewels that hang down. I start with them barely holding on and tighten them a little every five minutes.
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4. Spanking foreplay.
This kink works best for those of you who enjoy role playing with your lover. Whether it’s boss/employee or teacher/student role play, a naughty girl will need a little punishment to keep her in line. When she’s wet enough, you can show her the love.
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5. Foot massage foreplay.
Even if you aren’t a man with a foot fetish, giving a good foot rub is one of the most valuable skills you can have in your kinky foreplay arsenal. And if you want to take it one step further, give her a pedicure.
6. Share your fantasies.
I love unearthing my lover’s deepest, darkest fantasies, and I always do my best to make them come true. Engaging in dirty talk on the phone is another way to build sexual tension before you meet.
7. Bondage and sensory play.
Tie her up and when she’s helpless, use different objects, hard and soft, scratchy and smooth, hot and cold, to titillate her. With a blindfold, you can turn this into a guessing game.
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What’s your favorite way to turn a woman on? Share your kinky foreplay ideas in the comments!
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