A Beginner’s Guide to Double Penetration

There are several ways to interpret the term “double penetration.” Let’s review. Double penetration could refer to your p in her v with a great big dildo shoved up her ass. It could also be used to describe the act of you and another dude fucking a woman at the same time, or two dudes fucking your ass… or one dude and a dildo… or two dildos.

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For the sake of this post, however, I’m going to stick with our original definition and present to you some tips for giving your girlfriend the penis-dildo double penetration of her dreams.

Choose a Dildo

Let’s be honest. Your girlfriend probably already has one, although depending on what she wants shoved up her ass, she might decide to opt for a new one of a different shape or size.

It’s not a bad idea to have a separate dildo for anal anyway. The ass and vagina may live right next door to one another, but they DO NOT get along. Maybe she wants your dick up there, or someone else’s dick while you’re nailing her in the pussy, in which case you can skip this step.

Use Lots of Lube

If I could make this section of my post light up and flash like a neon sign, I totally would. Lube is that important. You don’t want to tear apart your gf’s asshole, do you? Didn’t think so.

Choose a water based lube as you most certainly want to slap a condom of whatever kind of probe you’re sending up the old poop shoot. It’s more hygienic and makes for an easier cleanup.

Practice Anal on its Own First

It’s the whole, walk-before-you-run thing. Anal sex is its own complex entity that requires lots of relaxation and skill to do well. Encourage your partner to practice on her own first so that she can offer you some sound advice.

Practice with her several times yourself, then when you’re so sure-handed that you could ass-fuck her during an earthquake with one hand tied behind your back, do it with your cock shoved up her vagina. Ever try to tap your head and rub your belly at the same time? You catch my drift.

Understand Her Anatomy

Here’s your little biology lesson for the day: The g-spot can be stimulated from both the front and the back. So can the clit in a somewhat indirect way. The clit it really quite huge compared to the small bit of it that we see.  

It has buried nerve ending on either side of the labia and around the anus, too. That’s what makes double penetration so potentially mind blowing. Of course, all of this sounds good in theory, but it means shit if your partner doesn’t enthusiastically enjoy it.

Find the Right Position

Doggy style and spooning are two of the more popular choices, but you’ll want to experiment to see what works for the two of you. If she wants to be in charge of the anal penetration, you might want to try the missionary position with her ankles on your shoulders. That way she can reach her ass at the same time that you’re fucking her.

Whichever kinky positions you choose, just be sure they allow for maximum control over the anal thrust. Oh, and if it hurts, stop doing it! It’s all fun and games until somebody ruptures a colon.