Ah . . . sweet sweet foreplay. So important, even in kinky relationships that may have a lot of other bells and whistles going on. Prolonging the final sexual act makes it all the more mind-blowing. Here are a few ideas to wind your woman up slowly.
Sexy Movie
Maybe kinky porn videos is your usual, but you might be surprised at what kinds of movies turn a woman on – sometimes a sexy slasher or a run-of-the-mill rom com will do the trick. Let her choose and you’ll find out. If you don’t make it through watching the whole film, well, you’ve just added something to your foreplay toolbox.
Erotica
What I mean by this is a good old-fashioned book with actual pages, and no, not a skin mag. Women have great imaginations and have been enjoying erotic literature long before Fifty Shades of Grey hit the scene. She may prefer reading to you or vice versa, either way it’s a great way to set the mood.
Massage
Very few men take advantage of this simple yet very effective foreplay. Women shouldn’t have to ask for a massage, plus, it takes the sexy out if you plan ahead. Indulge us in a full body hot oil massage that leaves us begging for more.
Feed Us
A man that cooks, or at least attempts to is hot, hot, hot. Tantalize her taste buds for things to come. Eat in bed or maybe in the bathtub – a change from the usual is a start to shaking things up.
Play Hairdresser
Being wet and naked with a man is super erotic. Wash her hair while gently massaging her scalp. We love it at the hairdresser’s and will like it even more when the man we are attracted to does it.
Kinkify
This goes without saying to all you kinklovers, but if you’re new to the BDSM lifestyle don’t be afraid to try something new. Exploring new things together can take the pressure off and also add a little humour, very sexy!
Routine foreplay gets stale and spells disaster for most relationships. How do you get a woman in the mood?
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