You know how it is. Once you have that orgasm, the fun times are over. Whatever seemed kinky before the fact suddenly becomes boring, uninspiring, generally not as interesting as getting up for a snack and a sip of beer.
On the other hand, when you’re in the depths of whatever kinky activity you enjoy, how can you not get overly excited and bust that nut? It’s all about balance, my friend. Here are some ideas.
How to Delay Orgasm
Surf that Wave
Having an orgasm is like surfing in that you can choose what wave you ride to shore. Yes, you can feel it swelling. Yes, you can sense when the crest is coming. And if you climb up on that crest it will carry you back to the beach. It will sweep you right back to your blanket and beer cooler.
But if you let your sexual surfboard ride over that crest, just let it flow by without peaking, you will find yourself on the other side, in flat water again, out past where the surf rolls over to the beach. Stay in this water, and recognize that you have the power to choose the wave when you’re ready.
Shift Your Cock
If you’re lying there, being jerked off, getting your cock sucked—whatever is happening inside the context of being in your furry wolf costume or adult diapers or whatever tickles your fancy—just remember that if you feel yourself getting close, you can always shift.
Break the rhythm for a moment to regain your composure and find your inner calm. Keep the sperm inside you, grasshopper. Just move your body, even in a gentle way, to interrupt progress, and you will be back in control.
Trust Your Partner
If you’re a premature ejaculator, or if someone even breathing lightly on your cock causes you to have an orgasm, choose something more suited to your tendencies.
For example, your partner likely knows how easy it is to make you bust, so try orgasm torture wherein she touches everything except your cock, maybe while you’re restrained. This way the pleasure is spread out to every part of you, and not just the tip of your dick. Have her tease, tantalize, and tickle you with feathers—everywhere but there.
Make It All about Her
If you come too quickly, and you need a lot less to get to the Promised Land, you ought to try spending forty proverbial years in her desert instead. Focus on her pleasure. Subjugate your own needs, and become a servant to her vagina.
Make waters spring from her rock, and kneel down to feed upon her manna. Prostrate yourself before her burning bush. And, after all is said and done, hire a small boat and let her fingers cross you swiftly over the river Jordan. Hallelujah!
How do you delay orgasm to keep the kinky times rolling? Please share in the comments!
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