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How to Find Deep Penetration with any Size

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The number one question mark that hangs over dating and relationships can be dick size. It isn’t only a question of having a big one or a small one, though.

Some guys with big dicks have no idea how to fuck, and some smaller women are afraid of big cocks. Conversely, some women are size queens, and some guys who have smaller cocks know how to use them like a concert violinist uses his bow—delicate strokes evoking great power and feeling.

Let me share my thoughts and experiences to help you delve deeper.

Tips for Deep Penetration Sex with a Small Penis

In what way does size matter?

Okay, so I’m not the tallest guy in the world. I’m 5’8” and happy at this size, but here’s lots of tall women who only want to date tall men. They can have them. I’ve dated a few tall women, incredibly tall, and they went out with me probably because I’m charming among other things. But when we got into bed and were naked, there was so much of them that it felt unmanageable for my height.

The Kama Sutra tells us that there are certain sized vaginas that align with appropriately sized cocks. If you’re 5”8” like me, then however much you like a woman who is 6’2”, and however much she likes you, penetrating her is going to be like sending a single Dwarf alone into the Mines of Moria. You are only going to awaken the Balrog of her sexual discontent.

On the other hand, if a 5’8” guy dates women who are his height or less (and there are billions of these women on the planet, believe me), he will find his dragon flying deep enough to make her lonely mountain not so lonely every single night.

Get creative with sex positions and angles.

Every pairing I’ve had tends to have slightly different combinations that work. With some women I was able to go the deepest with doggie style because I was just tall enough to angle down into her and bonk on her cervix. With others, the height differential was slightly wrong, and so doggie didn’t feel natural or go that deep.

In other cases, cowgirl worked well, because she was able to control the angle of insertion and find the sweet spot. And in some cases missionary worked the best.

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I will say, that it isn’t only the position. For example, the last couple of ladies I was with had bigger bums, and so when they lay on their backs there was a natural tilt that let me get right down and touch the cervix in the nicest way. However, the lady I am with now has a smaller frame, so we generate that angle by placing a pillow under her lower back to give her the tilt she likes. If you haven’t tried the pillow, do! It’s a wonder.

If all that fails, and you still feel too small, remember the main thing is to make sure you both have fun. There is no shame in you using a strap-on with your lover, and then finding your own orgasm later with her help. If you love each other, you will find what’s best for you through experimentation!

How do you go deep? Share your tips in the comments!

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