All massages are great – from the neck rub a coworker might give you to the one you pay big bucks for at the spa. But the best is an erotic massage that you give your lover.
The skin has thousands of nerve endings that can be stimulated through sensual massage. Tease and tantalize her with this foreplay that will have her begging you to go all the way.
Create a warm inviting scene with candles, aromatic oils, and sexy music. Turn the phone and TV off – you want her to be completely focused on how you’re going to make her feel. Have massage oil warming in a bowl of hot water nearby. Water based oils are best because they generally don’t irritate the skin. You may want edible oils if you like to lick your lady.
Have your woman strip and lie face down on a soft blanket. You’ll want to be naked as well so taking off your clothes later isn’t an awkward pause. Place a sheet over her lower half to keep her warm and slowly slide it down as you work your way over her entire body.
Take your time and always keep skin-on-skin contact. The slow build will have her thinking about what is going to happen, what might happen. Anticipation makes a woman wet.
Rub oil in your hands to warm it up. Start sliding both palms over her neck and shoulders and up and down her arms. Move your hands in synchronization without losing contact with her skin. Use your body for pressure and lightly skim your chest against her back.
While massaging, kiss her gently on the neck and nibble at her earlobes. Don’t be afraid to lick here and there too.
Slide the sheet down and begin to focus on her ass. She should be getting hot and wet at this point. Spread her legs slightly so you can gently caress her inner thighs, one of her most erogenous zones.
Roll her over and begin massaging her breasts and hard nipples. Licking and sucking will surely have her arching her back, and she may ask you to enter her, but wait . . . prolong things a little. Let your hard cock dangle against her pussy, playfully teasing.
Now, sit back and gently lift one of her silky legs and place it on your shoulder. Begin kneading the outer lips of her vagina while barely skimming her clitoris. You’ll know by her reactions how much is too much. Keep one hand down there while the other moves back to her nipples.
Just when you think she can’t take it anymore, when she reaches for your hot erection, slide it in, but only a little, in and out until you both can’t stand it any longer.
Now turn her over on her knees and enter her while holding her hips and running your hands up to her breasts. You may be able to find her G-spot in this position without going too deep. I’ll let you take things from here.
Get creative and add some props to your play – scarves, blindfolds, feathers, paddles, etc.
Any massage tips to share? Does your woman return the favor?
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