If you’re the kind of kinkster who gets off when thinking about fucking in public, but gets too nervous about getting caught to make your fantasies come true, we’ve got some tips for you. Experienced public pervert James Tanin of BDSMdate.com explains, “Sex in a truly public place is a bit risqué, but there are ways to make your encounter feel naughty, exposed and vulnerable, without too much risk of really getting caught.” Remember, in these types of scenarios, to always use your best judgement!
Rooftop Loving
If you live in a building that has rooftop access to a flat, fenced-in surface, or if there’s a street-level porch at your house, lay out comforters or a blow up mattress. Bring your lover out there to feel the cool breeze blowing where the sun doesn’t usually shine, and have some outdoor sex away from the public’s prying eyes.
Camping Sex
When you go camping in a remote area with your partner, anything goes. Fuck in a tree, on a log, in a cave, outside your tent, in your tent – anywhere! A blowjob at a beautiful vista will leave a lasting memory, but do be on the lookout for others. “Outdoor sex is my favorite,” admits Jessamin who works for FindaFemdom.com, and who is also a member. “I love it because it feels naughty, but also natural.”
Skinny Dipping
This is an exciting evening activity that always feels fun and risqué, whether or not sex is involved. It’s easy! Just strip off your clothes and hop in. There’s nothing quite like splashing around with a lover, under the stars. Remember to bring a flashlight so you can find your clothes after you’ve gone for a swim.
Road Head & Parking
Road head is dangerous to do while the car is moving, so we don’t recommend it, but it’s always fun to park at a nice viewpoint or remote turnoff to get a blowjob or to rub your partner’s pussy. It’s a great way to break the monotony of a long road trip!
Dancing in the Club
When you’re dancing with your partner in a public setting, you can get all up on them and get a little gropey. This might still turn you on, even if you’re not fully fucking your lover in public. A private booth is another place to get busy.
Role Play
You and your lover can simply pretend that you’re having sex in a public place. You won’t believe how well this actually works. Saying things like “Oh my gosh! Everyone is staring at us!” will really bring this fantasy to life. And if you’re an exhibitionist, get it on at home with the blinds or curtains open. Even if no one is watching, it’s the thought that counts!
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