As a woman who love love loves taking baths, especially with my lover du jour, I highly recommend that men initiate this intimate way of connecting. I’ve never been with a man who asked if I wanted to have a bath, shower sex yes (which I also love), but not a good old fashioned bubble bath. You’ll really impress a partner if you get the water running. It’s romantic, sexy, and can also combine many a fantasy or kink. I get that it might not be the most comfortable if you’re 6’2, but try it at least once. There are very few women who don’t find a hot bubbly bath the best foreplay.
Setting the Scene
A bath without bubbles is no bath at all. Bubbles are great for playfulness and keep the goodies just below the surface. I also recommend adding bath salts for a silky smooth feel to the water. If you use oil, a few drops will do. These will make you and your partner slip and slide like butter. Candles are a nice touch, especially aromatic ones.
Positioning and Foreplay
I always go for the no frills position: the man sits with his legs out or bent, behind the woman so she can slide up and down his chest while also brushing against his cock. She can also stroke his legs, reach up to wrap her hands around his neck, and if she’s flexible, reach behind her back to play with his toy. The man in this position can play with her breasts but usually just barely reach her pussy, thus creating temptation and anticipation.
Kinky Sex
If you like a little kink, don’t let this new setting stop you. There’s plenty of sex toys made just for the tub – from dildos to rubber nipple clamps. You can also role play as a prelude to getting into the tub (e.g. the “plumber” has come to check the dripping tap in the bathtub but really needs to test things out!) You’ll love how good sex feels after soaking in the tub, and sometimes you’ll want to get things started before you get out. Try doggie style as the water is draining out – very hot!
Apart from being a great way to ease stress and relax, a bath is a hot setting for foreplay that often leads to steamy, sensual sex.
If you try it and it really isn’t comfortable or “your thing”, you can always indulge her by surprising her with a bath for one, while you make dinner or set up the dungeon.
Do you enjoy taking baths with women? Any tips to share with fellow Kink Lovers?
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