The shower or bathtub is a place where most people feel relaxed and free, the rush of water having a meditative quality. It can also be a wet and wild place to experiment sexually with an adventurous lover.
Not everyone likes to shower with a partner or get sexy in the bath, but I certainly do! Once I find a man who is game, I like to see how far I can take it. When I was younger, my play was limited to long soaks in the tub with boyfriends, maybe one would wash my hair or scrub my back. Ah, to be older and more confident is a wondrous thing!
Shower Play Ideas
Wash each other. Sometimes you can get so hot for each other in the shower that you forget about actually cleaning, but there is a sensuality to washing another person’s body, feeling all the curves and crevices. This especially feels good over soapy, silky skin.
Perform oral. I like to get on my knees and take a man’s wet, warm cock into my mouth, all the while looking up into his eyes as water streams over my face. I feel like I’m in my own porno, and it turns me on like nothing else.
Masturbate with an audience. Lots of ladies love to use the detachable shower head as a tool for masturbating. Ask your lover to show you how she does it, and offer to masturbate alongside her. This can be a real bonding moment if you feel comfortable enough.
Bring your toys. Waterproof sex toys are my favorite, as they move in and out with much more ease with the slip n’ slide that a shower or bath offers. Whether it’s a vibrator, strap-on, or paddle, don’t be afraid to take your fun from bedroom to bath.
Experiment with positions. If you think sex is awkward sometimes, just try it in a slippery small space. Not only is the size of your tub or stall a factor, but also the size of you and your lover. Don’t be afraid to laugh your way to finding the right position, especially for penetration.
Take safety precautions. I’ve left this tip for last because it’s not very sexy, but it is vital. How many times have you almost fallen or hurt yourself in the shower? This probability only increases with an extra body, so either use a rubber bath mat or hand towel on the bottom of your tub, and don’t be afraid to hang onto hand grips for support when engaging in thrusting and alike.
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