You might not think there’s any particular trick to facesitting. Doesn’t it simply involve having a partner sit on your face as you eat her out? Why yes, it does… but there are a few dos and don’ts to consider as you go about it.
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Facesitting Dos
Ease into it
This applies mostly to the sitter. Don’t slam yourself down on your partner’s face like you’re riding a pony or a bicycle. Start out on your hands and knees and ease yourself back toward your partner’s face. It helps if the sittee’s head is elevated a bit.
Have a Distress Signal
You know, just in case you begin to suffocate beneath the weight of her loins. Agree that if you pinch her ass, she’ll ease up on the throttle. If ass pinching is a standard part of foreplay for the two of you, maybe choose some other way to convey your need for air. Scratching and clawing at the mattress is too ambiguous. What if she thinks you’re just having a really good time?
Direct Your Partner
Again, for the sitter: don’t be shy about speaking up and telling your partner what you need from him. You can control much of the sensation yourself, by moving your hips and ass. If he’s going too hard at it and your clit is overly sensitive, tell him to go a little softer. That particular position can expose the clit more fully, which can feel amazing, but not if it’s over stimulated.
Facesitting Don’ts
Expect Her to Reciprocate
At least not simultaneously. Do you know how hard it is to give a quality blowjob while engaged in the throes of your own passion? I’m a terrible multitasker so I choose to just enjoy the ride while sitting on my partner’s face. Some ladies might feel differently, but it’s up to them to decide. Facesitting Road merges with Highway 69, but your partner doesn’t necessarily have to take that exit.
Lose Total Control of Your Body
This is what can happen when you’re trying to do too many things at once. You’re pleasuring your girlfriend. She’s got your cock in her mouth. She doesn’t know what’s happening with her ass. It’s pressing harder and harder against your forehead. Your neck is forced into an uncomfortable position. You’re trying to reach her clit and in your fervent attempts you end up hitting it too hard. She jumps out of her skin and bites your cock… it’s pandemonium!
Do It When You Have a Cold
It’s just awkward for you if you do. How can you breathe properly if your nose is plugged? You’d have to keep coming up for air and that would sort of ruin the momentum for your partner. In my opinion, facesitting is a fair weather activity. You want to be in good health, with an ample lung capacity and healthy neck.
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