Anal Play Tips for Men

Over the years, a number of my partners have expressed their interest in exploring the exciting world of anal play. They were curious to know how such activities could enrich their sexual experiences and I was happy to help them find out. One thing to remember if you’re considering anal play for the first time is that it takes some preparation and communication to make sure your experience is safe and comfortable. Here are a few tips for enjoying three popular forms of anal exploration.

Butt Plugs
A butt plug can be a really intense way to increase your pleasure during sex. If you’ve never used one before, it can be a little tough to know what to choose, as they come in lots of shapes and sizes. To start out, I would recommend one that’s on the smaller side and made of a flexible material, like silicone. It’s also best to go for one that’s a little longer than it is thick because it’ll stay in place better. Be sure to use lots of lube and to start out with having your partner insert her finger, just to get used to the sensation. In terms of a specific shape to choose, it’s really up to you and your personal preference. One that is a bit curved verses totally straight will stimulate your prostate gland more, but it might be harder to insert if you’re trying it out for the first time.  

Pegging
If you’re longing to know what it feels like to take it in the ass, pegging is for you. Let your partner strap on your dildo of choice and enjoy! Like any kind of anal play, be sure to start out slow and have a conversation beforehand about your comfort level and expectations. Choose a dildo that’s on the smaller side to start. It’s a good idea to try it out your on your own before asking your girlfriend to have a go, as this will give you some advanced knowledge of how to direct her. You might want to start out with partial penetration and work up to going all the way in, and don’t forget to use lots of lube!

The Rusty Trombone
This is my personal favorite, perhaps because one of my former partners LOVED it. Simply put, the rusty trombone is the combined pleasure of rimming and a hand job. For obvious reasons, you’ll want to make sure that your anus is super clean before asking your partner to put her mouth there. You can use a dental dam for added assurance, or give yourself a quick enema before hand if you want to be really careful. Let your partner experiment with different motions of her tongue and lips. Be sure to give her lots of feedback so she can really give you what you need. If you decide to try rimming her in return, just be sure to brush your teeth and rinse with mouthwash before going down on her to prevent any potential contamination of her vagina.

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