Do you have an ass fetish?
Most men turn their heads when an attractive woman walks by, and they will immediately check out what’s in the trunk. They will notice the size and the shape and how it moves. If they like what they see, their gaze will linger a little longer.
What part of a woman’s body attracts a man the most? They will usually say face, but let’s not kid ourselves, guys—we know you love our breasts, our legs, and the ass is right up there.
A fetish or kink for the booty is not uncommon. If you were asked who has the best butt you’ve ever seen, a name will instantly roll off your tongue, whether it’s a celebrity like J.Lo or your last girlfriend’s best friend.
Beyond gazing and grabbing, there are many ways to enjoy your love of a good ass. You might not even be that particular about what makes an ass great to you, it’s just having one within your grasp to play with.
7 Ways to Enjoy Your Ass Fetish
Try any or all of these ass play ideas for a fetish session to remember.
1. Dress it Up
If you love your lover’s ass, you’ll love seeing it in different clothes, materials, and textures.
Tell her what makes her ass look great, or even better, buy her what accentuates the goods. This may be a thong bikini for your next getaway or that curve-hugging sweater dress she’s had on her wish list.
2. Ass Massage
It’s not the first thing when you think of massage, as we’re not using our butt to walk or lift or expend lots of energy from, but man a good butt massage feels good.
Use a little oil to soften and grease for easy gliding. Start and finish with your fave spot, moving everywhere in between.
Read: How to Give a Sexy Massage
3. Ass Fingering
This might be during the massage. I love massage porn that has the masseuse take it just a little too far. This is something you can just do with a willing partner or role play—either way, it’s a little bit naughty and a lot hot.
Remember to always ask, before you venture in the back door.
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4. Insert Anal Toys
Some women won’t want your finger up their ass. I know it made me feel self-conscious when my last lover always found his way in. Many gals like myself would rather try some anal beads or prance around with a butt plug in for pony play, than worry about issues of hygiene.
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5. Spanking
If you’ve been denied entry of all kinds, then spanking makes the most sense. It works for couples who like power-exchange dynamics or just fun roleplaying. Nothing makes me more wet than a good spanking.
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6. Rimming
If you’re lover is adventurous about what goes in her ass, then she may welcome your tongue, and maybe not all the way in but around and around. Your kink may not go this far either, but it’s a very intimate exploration for close couples.
Read: Rimming Tips for Beginners
7. Penetrate
Of course, you’ll want to penetrate her with your cock if you love ass. Doggy style is great for deep penetration, just make sure to use the lube in generous amounts and work your way in slowly.
If you both want to take it a step further, use a dildo in her vagina for double penetration—nothing like feeling oh so full!
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8. Cum Shot
Again, if nothing—not even you—is going in your lover’s booty, perhaps she’ll allow a cum shot on her glorious cheeks.
If you do have an ass kink, this will be a close second. The only part she’ll miss is the satisfied expression on your face as you watch your jizz drip down her curvy backside.
Ass Fetish Play Partners
What you’ll notice about women when it comes to your ass kink, is that some are more than happy for the attention their booty receives. These women will enjoy flaunting what god gave them (or the gym) and you will be in heaven.
But other women will not want that much attention given to their behind because they are shy or they just don’t see it as a place to extend to visitors.
If you love the butt, find a woman who loves hers:
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Are you an ass man? What is your favorite way to enjoy your fetish? Please share!
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