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Strapon Dating Sites: Meet Women with Strapons

Dominant Woman on Man

Hello, strap-on sex lovers – this post is for you!

I get a kick out of all the questions on sites like yahoo answers that are some variation of “She wants to do me with a strap-on?!” Oh, the horror! While it’s definitely true that many men and women are shocked by the idea of reversing roles in this manner, there are still plenty of singles who would love to meet a partner to make their pegging fantasy come true with a strap-on dildo and a dominant woman who knows how to wield it.

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So if you’re one of these men who is watching lesbian strap-on porn or who dreams of seeking out a strap-on femdom, know that there are sites catering to you and the women who want to have strap-on sex with you.

Indeed, dating sites certainly are getting more and more niche these days. Even though sites such as StraponDating.com sometimes have a smaller pool of members, the fact is, people are joining these sites in droves. Why spend time sifting through thousands of singles with broader tastes when you know exactly what you’re looking for? For instance… a local woman with a strap-on penis!

While Strapon Dating is likely your best chance for a site that is built specifically around those who love pegging, BDSM Date is probably where you’re going to find the largest number of women and femdoms eager to take you on. And it’s easy to narrow down the profiles of women seeking men for strap-on sex because there are filters for every sort of kink.

Create a profile at Strapon Dating

Find local members at BDSM Date

If you’re serious about finding a strap-on date or hookup you should check out sites like this because who knows when you’ll stumble upon a strap-on dildo wearing woman next? Also, you might consider adding a strap-on to your kink toy box. You can order one discreetly online at Stockroom.com. See all their strapon dildos and harnesses here.

Not ready to take the plunge, so to speak? Maybe you’re still in the curious phase and would like to know more about this fetish. You can read about a woman’s perspective on strap-on sex in this other post I wrote. (Yes, I’ve tried it myself!) And Holly, who also writes here at Kink Lovers, told us about a first-time pegging experience as well, that might inspire you and put your mind at ease.

Honestly, if you are any kind of submissive then strap-on sex could be a mind-blowing experience. You may wonder why you didn’t try it sooner.

I’ve been loving all the comments we’ve been getting on this post! Now I’d like to hear from You..

Does the thought of a woman taking you from behind turn you on? Have you had success meeting strap-on women? Let’s talk about it in the comments.

Tell us what you think! 74 Comments

  1. Ricky

    August 20, 2019 at 12:42 pm

    looking for someone to peg me with BIG strap-on.

  2. Kc

    April 16, 2019 at 11:11 am

    Hi, I’m 24 and stay in Chicago… I want a female to peg me.

  3. Travis Cook

    April 11, 2019 at 4:00 pm

    I’m looking for someone in the Nashville area who wants to fuck me in the ass. I’ve looked at hundreds of sites, and they all cost. Is there a truly free site?

  4. Anthony Kuone

    March 4, 2019 at 9:04 am

    I’m looking for a sexy woman who would like to peg me my virgin ass. I’m ready for my first time and can’t wait to be pounded hard with a big strap-on. Please fuck my tight ass into submission.

  5. Abby

    December 30, 2018 at 11:05 pm

    I’m a young somewhat masculine black woman in Cincinnati, Ohio looking for a bottom. I really want to peg someone, and I would treat you like a sub if that’s what u desired. I want to control you.

    • Anthony Kuone

      March 4, 2019 at 7:09 pm

      I will let you do what you want to do to me.

  6. Matt ward

    December 14, 2018 at 4:29 pm

    This post was meant for me I believe because you posted it on my birthday May 22, 1990. I’m seeking a strict woman with rules that I have to obey. If the rules are broken, I will be across her knee and spanked to tears… maybe even pegged long ‘n’ hard, so I know I’m her bitch. Then she is going to dress me up like a sluttie schoolgirl or maid outfit.

  7. CFR1972

    November 30, 2018 at 5:54 pm

    Would love to meet a kinky Glasgow woman who will strap-on fuck my ass. I love to be forced to wear women’s clothes to heighten the experience.

  8. stan

    August 4, 2018 at 3:31 pm

    I would love to find a woman into strap-on sex, but how do you even bring it up without her thinking less of you?

    • Warren

      October 25, 2018 at 5:31 pm

      I’m blessed with having a wife who loves for me to get dressed up in female clothes and crossdress. She and I are going to Seattle to see what we can do at the XXXporno shops, and hope soon to have a couple to go with us. Fun and having fun is first on our list. Exploring the world of the city. Looking and after we get tired of this, we go to a motel, and yes, we fuck in every possible way. Rest and get ready for the next round, rest and go again. Oh yes I’ll be in some clothes, sexy clothes. I have a good selection of dildos. I might have my fucking machine by then.

      • Warren

        October 25, 2018 at 5:42 pm

        I hope this works out soon, and I can get my message on the sight. We are real and ready to go out, but I’m still trying to figure out how to sign up here.

        • Anthony Kuone

          March 4, 2019 at 9:13 pm

          Hello Warren.I noticed you said you were married, so I’m going out on a limb here but would you and your wife maybe want to have some fun one night. My fantasy is to be pegged for first time while I’m sucking my first cock as my ass is pounded… would love to feel you blow your load down my throat.

  9. larry

    July 28, 2018 at 7:21 am

    I am a guy who loves to be pegged.

  10. Rocky Ryen

    July 7, 2018 at 11:35 am

    I have a friend with benefits who loves pegging me… this really turns things up. I really enjoy the different position. Now she is very bi-curious, we are trying to find another woman to play with who would enjoy in the fun of pegging.

    • Carl

      July 18, 2018 at 3:11 pm

      Just thinking about a woman taking me with a strap-on, gets me SOOO fuckin’ hot. I’ve brought up the issue with past girlfriends, but to no outcome… weren’t into it… too weird for them. Thank you for turning me on to this site. Maybe my fantasy WILL cum true. I wanna play… once hands are bound, I’m pretty much in it for the whole shebang!

  11. Donald J Harless

    June 29, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    I really enjoy having a strap-on dildo or a vibrating dildo in my asshole. I want to try this with a man and woman. I love to please women orally, and I have never had a real cock in my asshole or mouth. Looking to try it for the first time, even in my ass.

  12. jimmy

    June 12, 2018 at 7:06 pm

    I registered to almost all the pegging and bdsm dating sites only to find that it is phony. For every twenty profile of women, only one is real and the rest are bots or fakes… so if you are a man looking for a woman to peg, the best thing to do is get an escort. It will cheaper and faster, or meet a girl in a pub get to get know her and later in your relationship gradually bring the idea to her.

  13. Gregg

    May 9, 2018 at 7:20 am

    I have been looking for a woman for strap-on fun for a while. I have had a couple of very enjoyable experiences, but they were some time ago.

  14. Jeff

    April 22, 2018 at 8:37 pm

    That site allows you to sign up, but that’s it. You can’t browse members, so why pay if nobody is in your area.

  15. Anon1234

    April 15, 2018 at 12:36 am

    I’m a masculine-presenting female looking for my first pegging experience with a willing male.

    • John

      May 3, 2018 at 10:56 am

      Where are you located at?

    • Itsme

      July 12, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      Hi
      I saw your ad and im an guy who would love it to pegged by a female before having sex. Im stil a virgin. Maybe you could mail me about some details.

    • Ed

      September 8, 2018 at 10:58 am

      I’ll be ur bitch!!! Contact me.

    • Ed

      September 13, 2018 at 6:36 am

      I’ll be willing or non-willing. Whatever way you want! Just use me and abuse me. And you can own me!!

    • Richard Garcia

      November 12, 2018 at 4:09 pm

      Coincidentally, I’m looking for my first experience too. Interested?

  16. Robert Steven Madden

    February 21, 2018 at 12:48 pm

    I would love to have a woman pound me with a 12-inch strap-on.

  17. Steve

    February 20, 2018 at 10:43 pm

    Are there any strap-on sites where you do not give credit info… just put your name, description, interest and email address?

  18. carter wilson

    February 20, 2018 at 5:47 pm

    Girls, I’m looking to be pegged. Hit me up!

  19. John

    December 1, 2017 at 7:23 am

    I would love for a woman to fuck me with a strap-on, but my partner is not into that kind of thing at all.

  20. Don

    November 26, 2017 at 5:56 am

    I’m dying to be dominated, bound and fucked hard like a cheap whore by a hot woman with a strap-on. Love being spanked.Love being bound helpless and teased.Love and crave being fucked in all positions and even a little forced bi sex.Anyone want to punish and fuck a lingerie-wearing, strap-on sucking and riding sissy bitch ready for your every command?

  21. Bill

    November 12, 2017 at 7:13 pm

    Hi! Love a woman into strap-on. Any takers? Bill

  22. Danny Lee Davis Jr

    June 29, 2017 at 1:19 am

    It’s been 17 years since my last opportunity to be the bottom and it never leaves my mind even all these years later. I love both giving and receiving equally, and am always in the mood for either one.

  23. Citizen_Erased

    June 13, 2016 at 6:11 pm

    I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, and although she was slow to take to it when I first broached the idea, she now pegs me regularly. Indeed, she pegs me at least twice as often as I get to penetrate her. She enjoys the traditional role reversal and power exchange, as do I, and often gives me a very thorough spanking beforehand. She finds it amusing how much I love being pegged and how I can easily be made to beg for it. Our two main positions are me bent over, doggy-style, and me laying on my back with my legs in the air while she penetrates me. She often uses a double-sided dildo or kegal balls, at the same time. It is pretty much our main form of lovemaking now, and we both enjoy it very much indeed.

    • Holly

      Holly

      June 15, 2016 at 10:31 pm

      Thanks for sharing your story. It takes a lot of trust to share our secret desires and fantasies with a partner. Great to hear how that’s worked out for you!

  24. Wyatt Becker

    February 28, 2016 at 1:36 am

    My ass is waiting to be fucked good and hard.

  25. Jeremy

    February 7, 2016 at 11:47 am

    Looking for a good pegging

  26. avery

    January 14, 2016 at 5:19 pm

    I’m looking to do this for the first time… any ladies want to be my first?

  27. Urbitch2fuk

    December 28, 2015 at 11:13 am

    I want a woman who enjoys putting men in bondage. A woman who will spank my ass violently, pull my hair, force me to swallow her fat cock, slap me in the face with it, then bend me over and ram that cock up my tight boy pussy! I want to feel that cock balls-deep in my ass, pounding me deep and hard. Start smacking my face and pulling my hair while your pounding me. I love it when you make me your little sex slave bitch.

  28. Nana

    October 22, 2015 at 11:01 pm

    Mature European guy, now living in cambodia, is looking for a strap-on lady who will peg me.

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    October 5, 2015 at 5:02 am

    Love it

  30. Steve

    October 3, 2015 at 6:19 pm

    Kik me Bentoverboytoy looking for a woman to peg me.

  31. Tomis

    June 25, 2015 at 8:18 am

    I love females with strap-ons, and it’s a pleasure to be dominated.

  32. Mandy P.

    December 10, 2014 at 5:29 pm

    I am totally loving strapondating.com
    if you’re a lady like me who likes to pound men or if you’re a guy looking to be pegged
    check it out 😉

    • Jscrant8

      June 17, 2015 at 9:42 pm

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      • giveirtome

        July 25, 2017 at 6:21 am

        Do you live in perth?

      • Eric steve

        December 5, 2017 at 6:02 am

        Jscrant8 I am interested to know if you were looking for a guy to fuck at this time or maybe in the future.

        I am eric steve.

        Where are you located?

        • Cutter

          February 25, 2019 at 12:11 pm

          Hit me up, Eric. Bottom here, looking for full experience.

      • Chad Merkle

        November 2, 2018 at 10:04 pm

        Hello

      • Casey

        March 21, 2019 at 3:20 pm

        I want you to peg me good.

    • Tomis

      June 25, 2015 at 8:20 am

      I love to be pounded by females. Please guide me to the willing that are ready to bust my boy coochie.

    • nikki

      October 22, 2015 at 12:32 pm

      Thankx for the new site info, are you interested in meeting a new sissyslut who would absolutely love to have you pounding your big, long strap-on deep and hard in my hot butt? If your answer is yes, then please call me. I really want it bad, Honey!

      • Holly

        Holly

        October 23, 2015 at 9:47 am

        Hi Nikki, Thanks for your comment… and enthusiasm. We don’t publish personal information like emails and phone numbers. I recommend trying one the sites we described. Good luck!

        • Jonathan

          April 22, 2016 at 6:09 pm

          The site won’t work for me. Do you know why?

          • Lola Page

            Lola Page

            May 29, 2016 at 11:18 pm

            Hi Jonathan, Can you tell us more about the experience you had at the site?

      • Jesus69navarro

        January 27, 2018 at 8:15 pm

        I’m looking for a woman to fuck my ass with strap-on dildo. I’m a single, 37-year-old guy and have had no sex for the last five years!

        • Holly

          Holly

          January 27, 2018 at 9:26 pm

          Hi Jesus! This site is strictly a blog, not a dating site. We do not publish personal information such as emails or phone numbers. Check out BDSMdate.com to meet women who are also interested in kinky hookups!

        • Quita Scotty

          June 13, 2018 at 3:43 am

          Are you still looking?

          • Michael E Glass

            January 10, 2019 at 6:50 pm

            I’m so looking for this.

    • Eric steve

      November 23, 2017 at 6:24 pm

      To me Mandy………it would be easier if you just emailed me and we talked about strap on fun.

    • carter wilson

      February 21, 2018 at 3:55 pm

      well come here

    • Matt Ward

      April 12, 2018 at 12:05 am

      Hit me up Mandy. I need to be deflowered!

    • Ashbo

      June 10, 2018 at 12:13 am

      Yes, I am looking to be pegged.

      • Quita Scotty

        June 13, 2018 at 3:37 am

        I would love to experience this with you… this is a fantasy of mine, and I have yet to find the person who was into pegging.

        • Tony Kuone

          March 4, 2019 at 5:52 am

          I’ve always wanted to try pegging ever since I stumbled onto it going through porn categories. I was instantly turned on and have tried to find a female willing to pop my cherry with no luck. Hopefully one of these sites will work so I can fulfill my fantasy of being pounded from behind.

    • Saad

      June 18, 2018 at 10:56 am

      Hi, I’d like to be fucked in the ass by a woman with strap-on.

    • Nicholas Evans

      August 19, 2018 at 9:02 pm

      I would love to be pegged by you 😍

    • Chad Merkle

      November 2, 2018 at 10:02 pm

      Hi

    • Onehungtongue

      December 10, 2018 at 2:21 am

      I’m very shy about taking cock from guys. I need a woman to stick it to me. I have wide hips and a fat tail ass pussy that belongs on a woman. My ass has always been curvy and shaped feminine. I let guys fuck me as punishment for allowing my real daddy to fuck me starting when I was just six years old. Daddy said he was going to make me like it. He did, and I do now! Only now I want it from women only. Horny in Daytona Beach.

    • Dave Casper

      February 7, 2019 at 7:28 pm

      Blast my ass!

    • Seth McAtee

      April 14, 2019 at 3:32 am

      Miss Mandy, Though I’m sure you have enough available men at your disposal, I’d be very interested in speaking with you.

    • Jeff pate

      July 1, 2019 at 2:35 pm

      It would be my first time. Having a girl turned on by me taking one or being very rough, making me feel violated and helpless and overpowered, really turns me on… can’t wait to try.

  33. Robert

    June 1, 2014 at 3:00 am

    Well for me, it’s been a fantasy for a long time and it’s never happened. Women that I’ve been with didn’t seem to be, or rather I didn’t feel comfortable talking about it. Also I’m not into bdsm or any kind of humiliation or servitude.

    • Daniel Greentree

      October 6, 2018 at 3:40 am

      I’m an obedient, passionately subservient, totally surrendering, pretty bisexual beta white boy who soooo badly needs it big and black, especially if strapped onto a superior alpha, black dick, lovin’ white goddesses and/or a bi-top goddess or strap-on goddess!

    • Robert Tavernier

      April 13, 2019 at 3:46 am

      ME 2 NO humiliation

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