Kinky Confessions

First Time Strap-On Sex for a Straight Man

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I have a fantasy that I shared with my lover of six months. It usually takes about this long to start divulging my dark thoughts and kinks that I’d like to try. I wanted to try a strap-on with him.

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When I first brought it up, he thought I was kidding and laughed it off. The second time he made it clear that he didn’t want anything going up his behind.

I mentioned it a third time while we were watching porn together. This is something we like to do as part of our foreplay. We take turns picking clips, favorites that we’ve watched individually and others we find randomly.

I chose a sexy strap-on video that I’d carefully selected, one which I thought might change his mind. It featured a sexy brunette with a similar body to mine, and she did a striptease which is one of his biggest turnons.

He was hard before the porn vixen even brought out the strap-on gear. While he watched the quintessential scene, I took his cock in my mouth and left it there while the video played out. He could barely contain himself until the end, when he came inside my mouth. I swallowed and smiled up at him.

He not only changed his mind, he bought me a damn strap-on! We went shopping online together at the Kink Lovers BDSM & Sex Toy Store.  I let him choose a didlo size he was comfortable with, and he let me pick out the harness I thought was sexiest.

Was he nervous? Hell yes, but so was I. I’ve always talked a much bigger game than I was willing to play, and this was new to both of us. We shared a bottle of wine to lower our inhibitions, and I began with a sultry striptease, leaving only my high heels on.

I then let him watch as I secured my harness and dildo. I channelled my inner dominatrix and commanded him to get on all fours like a good little doggie. He obeyed.

I lathered him with lube before gently pushing the tip of my new cock inside his asshole. I thought I was going to come right there and then. He shuddered twice, before I slid the dildo inside as deep as I could. In and out, in and out, I rode him from behind.

He made sounds that I’d never heard before, and we had simultaneous orgasms. Using the strap-on has become a special treat for both of us.

I was patient and my lover was willing—two things that make for spectacular exploration and results!

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  1. curtis conner

    March 16, 2018 at 4:20 pm

    I too have wondered about this, but I’d prefer her to use a small size strap-on. But I can’t even find a woman who will spank good and proper, so I don’t want to take on another empty wish. I’ve been needing a spanking woman my whole life and have been sad and lonely regarding such. I can’t even meet a lady who will share a few minutes role play that entails her giving me a very rear spanking share, so what the hell is the use. It would be another broken dream. I call my wishful thinking “MY haunts” and so be it. At times I’ve been so depressed from this, suicide has entered my mind. And so be it… whatever.

    • Holly

      Holly

      March 16, 2018 at 9:18 pm

      Thanks for sharing your “haunts” with us. I didn’t meet kinky play partners until I was well into my thirties, partly because I was too shy to share my fantasies, but also because I didn’t know what they even were! If you find it difficult to meet women who would be into spanking you, there also exists the option of paying an experienced dominatrix to make your wishes come true. I have never met someone whose unfulfilled kinks have caused depression or suicidal thoughts. Whether it’s the needs that aren’t being met, or perhaps other issues in your life, I recommend counselling or therapy where you can talk confidentially about your feelings and desires. Take care.

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