Fetishes can be about just about anything, and glossaphilia is a popular one. The tongue fetish is specific and fetishists will have their favourite ways to play that may include adornment, voyeurism, licking, sucking, and tasting.
What Is a Tongue Fetish?
If you have a tongue fetish, you will feel sexually aroused by the tongue—its shape, size, how it moves, or just its appearance. A woman licking her lips might send you into overdrive, or the quick glimpse of a pierced tongue when someone is speaking to you. It may be the tongue’s texture that excites you, the warm lapping of her tongue on your balls.
Let’s look at some ways in which you can indulge your tongue fetish.
8 Tongue Fetish Play Ideas
1. Explore Small Spaces
Some people love a good lick inside their ear followed by a gentle blow—this cool sensation is a ticklish turn on. But the ear is but one place the tongue will fit if you like to use yours.
You may want to lick the rim of your lover’s nostrils. Some people get off on licking inside belly buttons, between toes and fingers. There is even oculolinctus, which is the licking of eyeballs that mixes the two fetishes.
Find out more about Oculolinctus: Eyeball Licking Fetish
2. French Kissing
Most of us like to French kiss with some restraint, as a too-sloppy kiss is a turn off for most women. With a new lover who you can’t keep your hands off, necking for hours seems almost natural, and for a tongue fetishist touching tongues might be the pinnacle.
Kissing is also one of the best early markers a woman uses for sexual compatibility. If the kissing is out of sync at the end of a first date, she may say see ya.
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3. Taste Test
Your fetish may include the taste buds, so why not try some blind taste testing for you or your kinky partner. Slather some of your fave foods—whip cream, melted chocolate, peanut butter, cheesecake, maple syrup—onto your body, and blindfold your lover. Ask them to lick wherever the goodies are spread or dripped, and try to guess what it is.
4. Lick It Up, Sub
Are you submissive to a mistress? If you are, you may already be licking her boots, figuratively or literally. If you’re not, get to it!
Lick whatever she tells you to—her shoes, her feet, the floor. You’ll not only be pleasing her, but you will also be getting off on your tongue kink at the same time. If you’re the dom, use your power to full advantage and ask your sub to use her tongue for your pleasure.
5. Fixate on Oral
As a woman who loves giving and receiving oral, the tongue is tops in my book.
Forget your cock for one night, and use your tongue to arouse your partner for as long as it takes. Licking, probing, swirling, lapping—it all feels good. Get into the 69 sex position, so you can both use your tongues simultaneously for synchronized orgasms.
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6. Rim and Go Deep
Not for everyone, but tickling the taint and running your tongue around the starfish ripples can be a turn on for both parties. It’s the ultimate tease, wondering if a partner is planning to dip and dive. But, don’t get your tongue anywhere near her back door without consent.
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7. Double Your Pleasure
When your tongue isn’t involved in your fetish, being in an FFM threesome can be extremely satisfying beyond the obvious perks. You can watch two women French kiss, lick each other, go down on each other, or take turns lapping your shaft. And when you’re about to come, say, “Open up and say ah!” All these scenarios likely make a tongue fetishist hard just thinking about.
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8. Get Pierced
Some fetishists may go as far as piercing their tongue, as a way to subtly display their kink. They may not be able to resist a woman with a pierced tongue because they love the feel when kissing or when she’s got her lips wrapped around their cock. While piercing is its own fetish, this is just another mix and match in the kink world.
Still not sure what kind of tongue play to explore? There is a never-ending supply of porn videos dedicated to the tongue fetish. If you don’t have a play partner, go solo and enjoy what’s out there. You’ll be ready when you do find a woman who wants to indulge your tongue fetish.
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