I can’t believe it! I’ve been writing for Kink Lovers for almost a year and a half. When I was approached with this opportunity my immediate reaction was: no way! I’m not writing about that or that or that. Or my sexual experiences, especially if they’re “different”.
I hadn’t been single very long, after being married to a guy with a wham-bam-thank-you-mam style of sex, and had only recently dipped my toe in the online dating pool. So even though writing about my sexual adventures seemed daunting, I’d also just begun to discover what was out there.
Having to write about kinks and fetishes that I had little or no experience with encouraged me to try new things. Some I liked, some not so much… but it’s all been fun with many laughs and “oh my god!s” along the way.
When I started online dating, I began more mainstream before joining a kinkier dating site. Sometimes just reading the profiles was enough to turn me on and push me to masturbate. I think I’d been a little starved sexually, to be honest. When I drew up enough courage to meet others in person, I expected them to be eccentric in their personalities, but more often than not, they were just regular folk whose wild side only came out behind closed doors. Now sometimes I look at people on the street and try to imagine what they would be like in bed.
If it wasn’t for this writing gig, I’m not sure I’d have ever tried butt plugs, double penetration, or an enema (that one definitely freaked me out!). Some things I write about I’ve yet to experience, but my mind has definitely opened up to the possibilites. I hope this post will help others to feel less insecure about exploring their sexuality – it only leads to greater confidence and pleasure.
Are you sexually adventurous? Willing to try anything once?
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