When you think “sex toy,” what image comes to mind? For me, it a big blue dildo I’ve affectionately dubbed Papa Smurf. I use it in my phone-sex practice to give virtual blowjobs. I used to think that guys weren’t that into sex toys, until I discovered just how many of my clients would welcome Papa up the ass.
This got me thinking of all the kinky benefits that come from playing together as a couple. Here are some toys couples can enjoy as a couple. Just remember to always be safe—use a condom and sterilize everything before sharing.
4 Sex Toys for Kinky Couples
1. Vibrating Cock Ring
It’s easy to understand the mutual benefits of a cock ring—a longer, harder erection for you equals a more satisfying time for both you and your lady. Add to that the concentrated power of vibration, and you’ve got yourself a recipe for explosive orgasmic release.
Lay back and relax as she rides your rock-hard cock, positioning herself in just the right way to stimulate her clit. Or take the reins yourself, teasing her until she’s begging to come. Build up slowly to a good solid rhythm, making sure to go deep enough to give her a little buzz with each thrust.
2. Strap-On Dildo and Harness
If you’re into pegging, you’re probably well versed in the joys of strap-on sex. What’s hotter than your girlfriend brandishing a cock and owning your ass? Not much except your willingness to fuck her with the same (thoroughly cleaned and sterilized) dildo.
There’s just something so kinky about a man wearing a strap-on. Buy an attachment to secure it around your thigh, and she’ll be in the perfect position to jack you off at the same time. It also works surprisingly well for double penetration. Build a varied collection of dildos, each with their own special features. Add a vibrating one to the mix to spice things up even more.
3. Glass Dildo
While we’re on the topic of dildos, glass ones are great to share for a couple of reasons. They can be boiled at a super-high temperature, making them easy to clean, and they can be heated or cooled to facilitate some good old-fashioned temperature play.
Use warm or cool tap water to prepare your dildo for this purpose, as inserting a freezing cold or boiling hot phallus into yourself or someone else is clearly not a great idea. Couples can take turns running the glass over one another’s bodies, before lubing it up and fucking your favorite holes.
4. Sex Swing
Who isn’t at least curious about what it’s like to use a sex swing? In the olden days, only the most dedicated of kinksters could own one, as installation required a specialized understanding of physics and building construction. Now you can get ones that fit easily over any door.
Read all the instructions before strapping your girlfriend in, then fuck her in a bunch of new, gravity-defying positions. Switch places, to find yourself suspended and powerless against your girlfriend’s touch.
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