Kinky Confessions

Being Realistic about Your Fantasies

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I have a fantasy that will probably never come true… but a girl can dream, right?

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My boyfriend has a hot friend, a really really hot best friend… can you guess where this is going? People who know me know I love to flirt. It’s fun, and I’m good at it. I like the feelings that arise with flirting, and if it’s not hurting anyone, why not.

My man knows I’m a natural born flirt, and he gives me permission to do it (within reason). He gets turned on by it, watching other men want what they can’t have. And of course, I do too!

He even lets me flirt with his best friend. He knows I think his friend is hot, because I’ve told him. And he doesn’t feel threatened because he has confidence in his own self, looks and sexual prowess included.

My fantasy is to fuck best friend while boyfriend watches. It would be like taking the flirt to its maximum potential. I get wet just imagining it, and my guy is always part of the package—his watching is the real turn on. My ex always wanted to watch me get nailed by another dude, but I never cared for him enough to indulge him.

Have I ever brought up my desire to my boyfriend? Not yet… and I probably won’t. It could create a lot of unwanted drama, and even if by some remote chance he (and his friend) were all in, there’s a good chance it would have negative repercussions on their friendship. Let’s be honest with ourselves, folks, sex with a friend is usually a bad idea… and this scenario is even more complicated!

So, with that realistic viewpoint, I will keep that fantasy to myself, but… I will ask him about watching me with a someone new, someone I can easily meet through an online dating site like CouplesDating.com. It would be an experiment, that if successful, could happen again. And if all goes to shit, we never have to see our third party again. Sounds like a win-win-win all round.

But I won’t just go browsing for a third the minute my partner gives me the thumbs up, oh no, we will have some serious discussions around boundaries and expectations beforehand. I’m a big believer in preparation when it comes to any kind of kink, and you should be too.

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