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First Time BDSM Stories: Readers Share Their Experiences

If you’re kinky, you may wonder what other people’s first BDSM experiences were like. Maybe you didn’t indulge your BDSM side until

Autofellatio Kink: Tips & Ideas

Have you ever fantasized about sucking your own dick? Have you tried doing it? Does the idea of autofellatio make you hard…

Keyholder Chastity Tips and Ideas

Are you dominant who finds the idea of taking complete charge of your lover’s sexuality exciting? Becoming a chastity keyholder might be

BDSM Terms: A Glossary of BDSM Words

You may hear different BDSM terms and wonder about their meaning. For those new to the kink and fetish community, or even

A Brief History of BDSM and Kink

When it comes to the history of BDSM, most people credit the Marquis de Sade and his kinky erotic writings as a

Fetish Clubs and Parties: 10 Types of Events

I have a wealth of experiences to sift through when it comes to fetish clubs and parties. I will share my thoughts,

Kitten Play: 14 Ideas for Cats and Kittens in BDSM

Is there a kitten in your life? Or do you like to express yourself in a feline kind of way? What Is

Crossdressing & Pegging Fantasies: 4 Kinky Confessions

At Kink Lovers, we love Kinky Confessions from our readers. We receive many confessions that revolve around femdoms, crossdressing, and pegging fantasies.

Pegging Roleplay Scenarios and Tips

Are you a femdom looking for pegging roleplay scenes for you and your sub? Are you a sub who wants to act

Femdom Facesitting: 15 Ideas for Queening Like a Domme

Are you turned on by a woman in charge? Are you a woman who is not shy to demand what she needs?

How to Use a Vibrator during Sex

A vibrator during sex can really heighten arousal and climax. A vibrator is a basic sex toy that is often a woman’s

Public BDSM Ideas for Getting Kinky in the Open

Exhibitionists and others who like to have kinky fun will love these public BDSM ideas. Whether you’re a full-time BDSM practitioner or