A vibrator during sex can really heighten arousal and climax.
A vibrator is a basic sex toy that is often a woman’s first when she begins experimenting with masturbation using accessories. But a vibrator can be awesome for couples sex too!
The vibrator need not be used as a replacement for an absent partner or lover, but used to enhance the pleasures of both individuals.
8 Ideas for Using a Vibrator During Sex
1. Stimulate Nipples and Breasts
Sensitive nipples love the vibrating sensations a toy can bring. Whether this is done by her during mutual masturbation or by her lover while her hands are held or tied above her head, this is going to ratchet things up a notch.
Round the nipples with a pointy vibrator, moving back and forth between breasts or glide over breast cups for a titillating massage.
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2. Run a Vibrator along Her Inner Thighs
When any sensation comes to a woman’s inner thighs, we will tense up in a good way, knowing direct contact with our pussy is not far off.
It’s this anticipation that makes running a vibrator along the inner thighs so dramatic and exciting. Take your time, up and down. Add bondage to any kind of body work vibrations for added excitement.
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3. Combine a Vibrator with Oral Sex
You can use a vibrator with oral in many different ways. Get into the 69 sex position to please each other simultaneously. You’ll have a lovely up-close of her pussy to press a vibrator onto her outer and inner labia, clitoris, and then slide inside. Use your tongue in tandem for a wet and wild ride.
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4. Use with Positions that Need More Stimulation
Some sex positions are less stimulating for women than others, and these will vary woman to woman.
She may want to feel a vibration on her clit while you’re inside her from behind, with you reaching around. Or she may enjoy holding the vibrator herself while riding you in cowgirl. Don’t be afraid to play around to find where adding a vibrator works best.
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5. Use when Someone Needs a Break or Post-Orgasm
Vibrators during sex are an awesome adjunct for those who have a limited libido or ED issues, especially if it is a vibrating dildo.
You may have already had a marathon sex session and come, but your lover wants more stimulation to help her climax or feels another orgasm coming and wants you to push her over that edge.
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6. Experiment with Vibration Speeds
A lot of vibrating sex toys are one speed, but there are many with more than one to experiment with. Ask any woman, a vibrator with fresh batteries is a girl’s best friend.
How much pressure or power she likes from a vibrator during sex will vary in different circumstances and sexual scenarios, but you’ll only know if through experimentation. Try mixing in a blindfold to make changes in vibration speed a real surprise for one of you.
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7. Mix Vibrations with Temperature Play
Some vibrators naturally warm up when operating which can feel oh so good, but you can also add warming liquids like honey or chocolate or lube. You can bring a bowl of ice cubes into the bedroom to cool things off.
Mixing tactile sensations is a fun way to play with new lovers. Lots of vibrators are waterproof and can be used in the bath or shower for wet slippery fun.
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8. Try an Anal Vibrator
Anal vibrators are designed differently, often with a flared end to hold it in place and to avoid unwanted trips to the emergency room.
Vibrating anal toys come in different sizes to suit those new to anal play and sex and for those more experienced who may be interested in anal training and stretching with vibrators.
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Best Vibrators for Sex
Bullet Vibrator
The bullet vibrator is a staple sex toy for most women. We love it because it is small, discreet, inexpensive, and easy to pack up and bring to our lover’s abode or on vacation.
These darlings of the sex toy universe are perfect for masturbatory practices and couples sex. Bullet vibes are the perfect size for nipple or clit stimulation or the tip of the penis. The bullet vibrator is so small it can be used on any specific part of the body you want to lavish attention on.
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Wand Vibrator
The Magic Wand was originally advertised as a massage tool, but women around the globe quickly realized the powerful nature of this sex beast.
With its swivel head and plug-in cord, it’s not the most subtle vibrator on the market, but it’s got several speeds and a large knob to cover more ground than the bullet. The wand feels good on all parts of the body and can be used for erotic stimulation or BDSM aftercare.
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Dildo Vibrator
Most vibrators today are shaped like a cock, so individually or as a couple there is the option of penetration along with stimulation.
You can mix things up with double penetration, before-during-and-after sex stimulation, strap-on vibrating sex play. Dildo vibrators may be rigid or have some flexibility and will come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. They may be a generic phallic shape or life-like to resemble a human penis.
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Remote Control Vibrator
For couples who explore BDSM or like to get kinky, remote control vibrators are fun sex toys to experiment with.
A femdom may want to control a vibrating cock ring that you are wearing while tied to the bed. Or maybe you are the dominant and have her crawling on all fours with an anal vibrator inside her that you control while lounging on the sofa.
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