Bring your butt into the BDSM bedroom!
BDSM anal play can be an important part of dominance and submission, as well as sadomasochism.
Our physical and psychological relationship with our asses means BDSM anal play is unique in humiliation and degradation fetishes. Anal sex and anal play feels more taboo. It also gives an orifice and penetration option for sex play on a male, and more penetration options for BDSM play on women.
As most of you have figured out already, our butts have endless nerve endings causing a variety of amazing sensations. For kink and fetish life, there is a world of pleasure-pain in BDSM anal play.
Read: Anal Play Dos and Don’ts
15 Ways to Bring Anal into Your BDSM Play
1. BDSM Anal Training
A dominant may ask their submissive to undergo BDSM anal training.
While anal penetration isn’t always BDSM, in many power exchange relationships, training a submissive to accommodate fingers, butt plugs, and dildos through anal stretching and relaxing techniques is a key component of domination and bondage and pleasurable for both roles.
Read: BDSM Training: A Guide for Beginners
2. Demand (or Offer) a Rim Job
A rim job, or oral-anal contact is incredibly intimate or incredibly humiliating, sometimes both at once. Incorporating requests or orders for oral-anal service can be part of BDSM anal play.
Long called a “rim job,” the anus and ass cheeks can be kissed, sucked, licked, and penetrated with lips and tongue as another kind of oral sex.
Read: Rimming Tips: How to Give a Rim Job
3. Add a Butt Plug
Butt plugs are a classic sex toy model. They are specially designed dildos for ass play and anal play.
Butt plugs are flared at the base so that the toy won’t be sucked into the body. They start super small and can get massive, so you can use them in anal training by changing sizes along the way as part of BDSM anal play.
Butt plugs can be left inside to increase pleasure and pain, or as part of bondage. Plugs are available with tails for pony play and other kinds of cosplay as well.
Read: 8 Reasons to Use a Butt Plug during Kinky Sex
4. Try Pegging
Pegging, or having a woman wear a strap-on harness and dildo for anal penetration, can be an exciting part of BDSM anal play. The taboo and gender role reversal is hot in power exchange relationships.
Taking it up the ass can be a form of humiliation, often the end game of femdom and sissification BDSM play. Pegging is not just for BDSM anal play and can be enjoyed by anyone, but it is popular as part of bondage and discipline and role play common to BDSM.
Read: Pegging Positions that Feel Amazing for Both
5. Play with Anal Beads
Anal beads are a classic sex toy. They are basically a string of silicone or similar material beads that can be inserted into the anus one by one. Beads can be part of BDSM anal play as a form of torture or punishment. They can be pulled out slowly or swiftly for different anal sensations.
Read: Anal Beads 101 for Beginners
6. Spice It Up with Figging
A very old fashioned form of BDSM anal play is figging. Taking a peeled slice of ginger root and pushing it into the anus causes intense burning sensations. Long before sex toys were made, creative lovers were writing about this inventive form of anal torture.
Using ginger along with impact play causes an extra flood of pain every time the impact lands, as the submissive squeezes their anus automatically on the ginger root with every strike.
Read: Figging: Hot and Spicy Anal Play
7. Anal Hook BDSM
An anal hook as part of BDSM anal play is basically a fishing hook designed for the butt.
The anal hook can be used as a dildo or as a kind of bondage anchor, sometimes as part of the regalia of a harness. Suspension bondage with an anal hook is very dangerous and should not be attempted!
8. Anal Fisting
When fingers just aren’t enough for a hungry ass, there is a whole fist and forearm that can fill up the hole. Always use massive amounts of lube and practice BDSM anal training first.
Read: 6 Tips for Getting Fisted by a Woman
9. Just Add Bondage
Adding restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, gags, and bondage practices to anal play makes it BDSM anal play.
10. Anal Snake
An anal snake is a supple kind of butt plug that is very long, meant to be inserted very slowly into the rectum and colon.
11. Anal Temperature Play
Using hot and cold implements as part of BDSM anal play adds different sensations to butt play.
12. Anal Medical Fetishes
You can play doctor to incorporate medical kinks, conducting examinations with speculum, administering enemas, or doing the bend and cough test.
Read: Medical BDSM: 10 Medical Play Ideas
13. Sensation Play or Sensual Domination
Not everyone kinky is into serious pain or degradation. It is popular to play at BDSM and enjoy a variety of sensations inside a dominant and submissive exchange without pain.
Using bondage and sensual or varied sensations such as ice cubes, feathers, kissing, blowing, tickling, and regular or small-sized butt plugs and dildos can be amazing.
Read: Sensation Play Tips, Tools, and Ideas
14. Ass Worship
BDSM anal play can be part of ass worship. If you want your sub to worship your ass, demand gazing, praise, adulation, massage, touching, kissing, licking and hole service.
Read: Ass Fetish: 8 Ass Play Ideas to Enjoy
15. Impact Play
Butt spanking doesn’t have to involve the anus and is enjoyed by many who do not enjoy BDSM anal play but who do enjoy involving the ass in general.
Read: Impact Play Tips, Tools, and Safety
Spanking across the butt cheeks is pretty much a staple of BDSM and can be amazing foreplay for BDSM anal. It also offers an alternative for butt play lovers who don’t want to “go there” entirely.
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