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Impact Play Tips for Kinky Couples

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Impact play isn’t a big move in a major league sports game that changes everything and makes it into highlight reels forever. Well, maybe it is that, but it’s also something a lot more kinky and interesting.

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Any kind of slightly violent contact between sexual partners can be considered impact play. This ranges from the vanilla to the extreme.

Impact Play Basics

Spanking is vanilla impact play. If it’s just a hand on a bottom, whether as a natural expression of affection during doggy-style sex or as punishment, it’s impact play. It gets kinkier when people get into switches, whips, paddles, riding crops, electric flyswatters or god knows what else. If there’s blood involved then you’ve probably crossed into the super kinky realm often called edgeplay.  

Erotic flagellation takes it a step further. This can be on the butt, the inner or outer thighs, the back, wherever. People who are big on giving vocabulary to their kinks call using a single-ended switch, like a whip, “single tailing.” If there are multiple heads on the whip, like a cat o’ nine tails, it is called “flogging.” Call it what you like. If it gets you off, then it’s good.

Being the dom takes practice. You need to aim for padded fleshy areas, and not close to any vital organs like the kidneys, eyes, etc. There are ways to hurt somebody without hurting them, if you know what I mean. Also, safe words are your friends. The last thing you want to do is maim or kill your sub. Ongoing fun is the best, and being in jail is the worst… especially for erotic crimes.

Bondage and impact play go hand in hand. Whether you’re tying someone up with scarves and tickling them with feathers, or you’ve chained someone in your dungeon to flog all night, the notion that the sub is at the mercy of the master is a big part of the thrill. The sadomasochism aspect of feeling aroused by giving or getting pain is what makes it all worthwhile!

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