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Spanking Dating Sites that Work

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“Some girls, they like candy, and others, they like to grind,
I’ll settle for the back of your hand somewhere on my behind.
Treat me like I’m a bad girl, even when I’m being good to you,
I don’t want you to thank me, you can just spank me.” ~Madonna

Spanking can be a lot of fun, especially if both you and your partner are equally into it. If spanking is something that really turns you on and you’d like to meet someone local to play with, a spanking dating site can be just the thing. You can avoid having to broach the subject with people who are too vanilla, and get right to the profiles of spanking lovers who are single, ready to play, and close by.

Where to Meet Spanking Partners

These are the spanking dating sites I recommend for anyone looking for local partners…

Fetish Hookups

I know, I know. FetishHookups.com manages to make most of my “best of” lists lately and here it is again. Although it’s not technically JUST a spanking site, it does cater to all kind of kinks and fetishes, including the spanking crowd. And to make things easier, Fetish Hookups gives you the ability to search by interests so finding people who want to be spanked is easy.

What this site really has going for it though is the sheer number of members which dwarfs the membership of any other kinky dating site. Definitely take a look at who’s local here before making your final choice of a spanking dating site. FetishHookups.com is pretty wild, so be prepared for lots of nudity, dirty member videos, and no-holds-barred chat rooms. Because of the major kink element at Fetish Hookups, it can be a great spot for finding people into kinky OTK spanking roleplay.

Find Spanking Hookups at FetishHookups.com Now

Find Spanking Partners

FindSpankingPartners.com is THE spanking dating site. When looking to meet spanking dates online, we usually have to head to a broader BDSM dating site like Alt.com. This site wins because it was created just for men and women who like to give and receive spankings! No more weeding through profiles to find someone who shares your fetish, now you can become part of a community of like-minded people.

As far as features go, they have everything you need to connect with other members and set up dates. Once you’ve created a profile, you can do a few things completely free such as search through all the profiles of other members, use the chat rooms and send Flirts. (A “Flirt” is basically like winking at someone to let them know you’re interested, without actually sending a message.) When you’re ready to meet, you can easily upgrade to send private messages to get the ball rolling.

2020 Update: A reader has let me know that you can no longer access all the free features above without an upgrade. I’ll be writing a more in-depth review of Find Spanking Partners soon that will reflect these changes. Stay tuned!

Create Your Profile at FindSpankingPartners.com Here

Spanking Dating

You’ve probably come across SpankingDating.net  in your search for spanking hookup sites because they’ve also been around awhile. Note however, that this site is almost identical inside to FindSpankingPartners.com above, and has all the same features and members. This means there’s no need to join both spanking sites, just check out one or the other.

Spanking Dating Sites: Tips for Success

  1. Take time to create an awesome profile.
    Every time you message someone they are going to come visit your profile, which will make-or-break your response rate. Give people a few quirky or interesting details about yourself, fill everything out as completely as possible, and for goodness sakes add at least one photo. If you need anonymity, then add a pic that hides your face and share more later. FetishHookups.com has a great feature that allows you to create secret photo albums that you can choose to share privately.
  2. Get found by other spanking lovers.
    If you are using FindSpankingPartners.com then you don’t need to worry about connecting with spankers and spankees, because that’s the main focus of their spanking website. However, if you’re using more general kinky personals like Fetish Hookups, then do the following: Put your spank-loving status in the headline of your profile, and mention it again in your profile. When other search for spanking buddies they’ll discover you easily. Also join any spanking-related groups you can find.
  3. Enjoy all the spanking site features.
    Have fun and enjoy all the online perks offered. Fetish Hookups has the naughtiest video chat rooms where members broadcast live. The chat can get pretty wild and nudity is on full display, so it’s fun to play around with between spanking dates. But there’s more to it – if you are regularly engaged with a dating site they will feature your profile more prominently, which gets you more spanking hookups. You will also be more visible to users who are also logged in, generating more opportunities for flirting and connection.

Want more spanking posts from Kink Lovers? Check out Spanking 101: Dos and Don’ts and Spanking Positions and Variations.

Best of luck and enjoy! xo Lola

Do you have any spanking experiences you’d like to share? Tell us in the comments… because this post could use a little more naughty!

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