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“Some girls, they like candy, and others, they like to grind,
I’ll settle for the back of your hand somewhere on my behind.
Treat me like I’m a bad girl, even when I’m being good to you,
I don’t want you to thank me, you can just spank me.” ~Madonna

Spanking can be a lot of fun, especially if both you and your partner are equally into it. If spanking is something that really turns you on and you’d like to meet someone local to play with, a spanking dating site can be just the thing. You can avoid having to broach the subject with people who are too vanilla, and get right to the profiles of spanking lovers who are single, ready to play, and close by.

Where to Meet Spanking Partners

These are the sites I recommend for anyone looking for local spanking partners…

Fetish Hookups

I know, I know. FetishHookups.com manages to make most of my “best of” lists lately and here it is again. Although it’s not technically JUST a spanking site, it does cater to all kind of kinks and fetishes, including the spanking crowd. And to make things easier, Fetish Hookups gives you the ability to search by interests so finding people who want to be spanked is easy.

What this site really has going for it though is the sheer number of members which dwarfs the membership of any other kinky dating site. Definitely take a look at who’s local here before making your final choice of a spanking dating site. FetishHookups.com is pretty wild, so be prepared for lots of nudity, dirty member videos, and no-holds-barred chat rooms. Because of the major kink element at Fetish Hookups, it can be a great spot for finding people into kinky OTK spanking roleplay.

Find Spanking Hookups at FetishHookups.com Now

Spanking Dating

SpankingDating.net is THE spanking dating site. When looking to find spanking partners online, we usually have to head to a broader BDSM dating site like Alt.com. This site wins because it was created just for men and women who like to give and receive spankings! No more weeding through profiles to find someone who shares your fetish, now you can become part of a community of like-minded people.

As far as features go, they have everything you need to connect with other members and set up dates. Once you’ve created a profile, you can do a few things completely free such as search through all the profiles of other members, use the chat rooms and send Flirts. (A “Flirt” is basically like winking at someone to let them know you’re interested, without actually sending a message.) When you’re ready to meet, you can easily upgrade to send private messages to get the ball rolling.

2020 Update: A reader has let me know that you can no longer access all the free features above without an upgrade. I’ll be writing a more in-depth review of Spanking Dating soon that will reflect these changes. Stay tuned!

Create Your Profile at SpankingDating.net Here

Find Spanking Partners

You’ve probably come across FindSpankingPartners.com in your search for spanking dates because they do a lot of advertising and have been around awhile. Note however, that this site is almost identical inside to SpankingDating.net above, and has all the same features and members. This means there’s no need to join both, just check out one or the other. You can find our official review of Find Spanking Partners here.

Want more spanking posts from Kink Lovers? Check out Spanking 101: Do’s and Don’ts and Spanking Positions and Variations.

Do you have any spanking experiences you’d like to share? Tell us in the comments… because this post could use a little more naughty!

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Hwyman
3 months ago

Interested in knowing which site are good and which site are best to avoid. Some that have come up in my spanking search that I’m considering are LoveCity.com(appears to be a vanilla site), SeniorsSpanking, spankedpersonals, realspankers.net, mingle2, Book of matches, wireclub, spankingdating & Spankingneeds.

Hwyman
3 months ago
Reply to  Lola Page

I’m in AR, thank you that does help some. Would like to know if you come across any good ones. FetLife seems to be one where at least many of their ads are real people, as I have met a number of them at some of the parties I’ve been to. Response rate is at least better.

Thomas Chetney
5 months ago

Jay, I understand your meaning. These sites are somewhat misleading! You upgrade, then you’re limited and you have to upgrade yet again. Well upgrade to the “Premium Site”, you do that but there a date from a few days, that this is only good for. Remember these sites are money makers. They’re like Arcades “You’re so close to winning but the prize slips out of the tongs”. Keep trying!

Good Luck my friend.

Jay
1 year ago

Hi everyone. Are there any free over-the-knee spanking websites out there where you don’t have to pay to send messages, or do you have to pay for them all? I have been on many sites, but it costs a fortune and is annoying when your monthly subscription runs out before getting the person’s details of when and where to meet up. Thanks, Jay.

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