Addi Stewart

Hi! I'm Adhimu Stewart. You may know me as Mindbender of SBU, or as hip hop journalist/promoter/music lover Addi, singing and dancing at countless concerts in Toronto and beyond. But here and now, I'd be honored to give you the feelings, insights, discoveries and suggestions that I've personally experienced through my 18 years as a polyamorous lover. The multi-dimensional connections (mental, physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual, social, economic, etc.) I spread the gospel of love daily. I hope the one thing we all have in common is a desire to find our definition of "love", whether it is a person, place or thing. Making love is a heaven to me, and I will share my everything with you... and would love for you to share the same joy with me ;) Connect on Google+

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Rough Sex Ideas, Positions, and Safety

Rough sex is for those into hardcore sexual intimacy and intense sexual connection. Rough sex may leave some bruises, some soreness. But

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Sex Party Tips and Etiquette

Make sure you get invited to the next sex party by following these etiquette tips the first time. The sun is shining,

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BDSM Texts to Send to Your Dom or Sub

Thinking of sending a sexy BDSM text to your sub or dom? If you’re a kink lover, it’s important to know how

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Orgy 101: An Introduction to Orgies

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5 Kinky Massage Ideas and Techniques

Have you ever thought about the erotic power of touch and how to give a kinky massage? Massage is a healing form

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5 Kinky Woman On Top Sex Positions

Looking for some quick ideas for sex positions that put women on top? The missionary position has had its time in the

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How to Have Safe Sex Like a Porn Star

As a porn star, I sometimes joke: “I LOVE practicing to make a baby, but I’m not sure I want to actually

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5 Ways to Push Your BDSM Limits

Let’s go to BDSM Dreamville, baby! This invitation comes with a very gentle, but very large blinking neon sign: TAKE IT SLOW

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5 BDSM Dominants to Avoid

Are you concerned about a dom(me)’s behavior? Consider these red flags for BDSM dominants. The most respectable dominants will sincerely seek a

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How to Be a Good Dom (or Domme) for Your Sub

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Being the Submissive in Group Sex

I recently had one of the most intriguing nights of my life, playing the submissive in group sex with four women, and

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4 Naughty Christmas Sex Ideas

Whether you’ve been naughty or nice, you can always enjoy the gift of naughty sex this Christmas with these kinky ideas. So,