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Orgy 101: An Introduction to Orgies

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Interested in having an orgy, but want to know more?

Oh baby! Let’s dip our ten toes into Lake Orgy with a bunch of other sexy folks who want to be introduced to exploring group intimacy.

I’ll answer basic questions those being introduced to orgies may have, and sprinkle in some experienced advice along the way. By the time we’re done, you’ll feel like you have the basic 101 schoolings necessary to experience your first orgy!

What Is an Orgy?

An orgy is any sexual connection of people numbering five or more.

Three people is a threesome. Four people is a foursome. Five people? It’s an orgy, baby! And technically I suppose five people all kissing might not be called an orgy, but it’s a kissing orgy if nothing else. Therefore, we are generally talking about five people having some form of sex, whether it be penetrative, oral, or some frothy mix of the two.

Most orgies involve nudity so expect nakedness, but it’s not quite required. There certainly have been sex parties where everyone is in costume and masks, but where participants figure out ways to fuck and suck each other without disrobing fully.

Orgies are sex parties, and there are many ways to have a sex party!

Read: How to Find a Local Orgy

Why Do People Like Orgies?

You can introduce yourself to a wide variety of possibilities in pleasure at an orgy that you simply can’t quite recreate or experience with one or two people. People like multiple hands and mouths and genital options to explore and experience SIMULTANEOUSLY—a dream come true for many folks in life, straight up.

There’s a camaraderie found in orgies, and it’s unspeakably magical beyond description when you are leg-locked with one lovely person and lip-locked with another. There are so many reasons why orgies are enjoyable—communal connection, the fun danger, the meetup of many sexual friends, the debauchery, the stories that can be told forever after, the memories.

Read: Group Sex Sites That Deliver

What Happens at an Orgy?

Kissing. Licking. Oral sex. Fondling. Fucking. Fingering. Ass-licking. Three-way kissing. Four-and-five-way-kissing. Three-four-and-five-way-oral-sex. Stacking bodies. 69ing. Training. Watching. Breaking. Smelling. Tasting. Cumming. Squirting. Moaning. Screaming. Laughing. Shouting. Grunting. Cursing.

And so many other things that are beyond my ability to describe, but once you introduce yourself to an orgy, you will KNOW, biblically.

Read: Group Sex Tips for Your First Time

How Do You Start an Orgy?

Sometimes, it’s really as simple as… asking one or two friends… to ask one or two of their friends. Spread the word a little bit. Maybe throw it out there in a group message of texts to sexy folks you know. Maybe an online group, I had a *great* orgy that started on social media. There are niche dating sites, websites, and apps out there that do what Craigslist used to do, as far as connecting orgy-loving local folks.

As long as everyone is safe, boundaries are respected, and the safety of each participant is communicated, then an orgy is not much different than any other sexual encounter! Except… there are WAAAAY more arms, legs, lips, and juicy bits to indulge in! But you are not expected to fuck everyone or kiss everyone, just do what feels right—and there will be plenty of that to choose from!

Read: Sex Party Etiquette

Are There Orgy Rules?

Communicate all emotional, psychological, and physical boundaries before anyone touches. Have it somewhere safe and private. Be as discreet and mature as you can be within this wild dream. Bring food, water, and sex toys. Discuss soft and hard drugs, and alcohol usage—be honest about needs vs wants.

Wear condoms—EVERYONE! Get tested, but be as safe as everyone decides to be in this encounter. The rule is not to come in anyone if it’s not safe to! But come all over the ass, face, belly, feet, or where have you if given the okay.

Another rule would be to keep the location details safe, so you don’t fuck up the orgy before it even happens. And keep the juicy hot tea gossip details of the orgy secret after it happens, so you don’t fuck up the chances of a sequel happening with your wonderful collection of unicorn orgy fuck buddies!

Read: Orgy Tips for Your First Time

Sincerely yours,
Adhimu “Malcolm Lovejoy” Stewart

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