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There are many sites out there that will help you get laid, but when you’re looking for a third or a couple to indulge in a threesome with you, some hookup sites are going to make the search much easier. Read on to discover the best threesome sites out there today.

Threesome Dating Sites That Work

Here my top picks for finding real threesomes. I’ll also reveal how I chose the best threesome sites, as I have certain criteria I look for.

Disclosure: I’ve had a full membership at all the sites below, and only recommend them to readers because I know they’re the real thing. (I’m still a member at Find a Threesome and BDSM date.) For sites I recommend, I sometimes use links that earn a small commission when someone opts for a full membership. It costs nothing extra, but helps keep our kinky blog going.

  1. FindaThreesome.com: Biggest and Best

    The name says it all. Find a Threesome is a wild community of adults looking for no-strings sex, casual relationships, and yes, threesomes. The database of members is huge at a staggering 90 million+ users, so you shouldn’t have any problem finding local women and couples ready to hookup.

    They offer a lot of cool features that you won’t find on other dating sites or threesome apps. These include video introductions, live video chat, group chat rooms, member blogs, and more. Be warned, this site has loads of nudity and sexually explicit content uploaded by members. Enjoy!

  2. Fling.com: Couple-friendly Hookups

    Another veteran of online hookups, Fling is a great second option after FindaThreesome.com. They’ve been around long enough to amass a good number of members, and in addition to offering those essential couples profiles, they let their members select from a list of activities they’re looking for, including threesomes. This makes finding others who are open to FFM or MMF threesomes that much easier. Note that it’s easier to find a third here than a couple seeking a third.

  3. BDSMdate.com: Kinky Threesomes Await

    Finding a threesome is one thing, but meeting women and couples to explore fetish or BDSM in a group setting is an entirely different challenge. My favorite social network for BDSM dating also caters to those seeking threesomes. Head over to BDSM Date to meet doms, subs, fetishists, and everyone in between who like their threesomes kinky.

  4. 3someDating.com: Flirt Your Way to Success

    A newcomer to my list of best threesome dating sites! 3some Dating is a pretty interesting option. They have a more social media vibe than the others on this list, and allow members to do quite a bit on the site without paying. Not nearly as outrageous as Find a Threesome, but a good place to check out. I especially recommend this one to those living in the UK, as it seems they started out there and have a very good amount of people from there.

The Best Threesome Sites Have These Features

What to look for in a threesome dating site? For the best odds of finding yourself in a sexy FMF threesome sandwich, you’ve got to join a site with these offerings:

Profiles for Couples

Users should be able to create an account as a couple. If you’re a single looking for a ready-made couple, this will make things much easier when doing your search. And it’s great for couples to get more attention from anyone seeking a threesome. Also, you’re only going to find couple profiles on sites for finding sex. That’s a good thing.

Huge Member Base

I’m not saying that this is going to be like finding a needle in a haystack, but you ARE looking for a subset of the people you’ll find on kinky dating sites. If you want to ensure you’re going to meet lots of attractive folks who are in your area, you need to head to a hookup site with LOTS of members.

Here at Kink Lovers, we’re all about making your threesome fantasies come true. We’ve written a lot about finding threesome success so if you’d like to read more, here are some links to a few other posts. Check out Kinky Threesome Positions to Try, Threesome Tips for Kinky Couples, and How to Plan an FFM Threesome.

If you try any of these sites out, please come back and let us know about your experience! xo Lola

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