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15 Threesome Ideas for Kinky People

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Looking for threesome ideas that will take your encounter to the next level?

Just about any kink or fetish can be adapted to accommodate a threesome or other group sex numbers.

Whether it’s BDSM that floats your boat or exhibitionism, or leather, what works for two can suit three, four ….or even one.

If you are polyamorous, you may play as three on a regular basis, or maybe you are dating a girl who comes with a girlfriend—ooh la la!

Here are some kinks that work especially well in a threesome, plus ways to adapt your favorite fetish for three!

Still need play partners to try out these threesome ideas?

Read: How to Find Local Threesome Hookups

15 Threesome Ideas for Kinky People

1. Sit on the Sidelines

Watching another couple making love is one of the most moving and exciting experiences one can have. Porn is the next best thing, but there’s nothing like the real deal.

Whether you love to see two women licking each other all night long, or want to see your wife mounted by a hooded stallion with a ripped bod, being “the odd man out” at a threesome is sometimes the highlight!

Read: Hotwife Dating Sites for Couples and Bulls

2. Try Threesome Roleplay

The more the merrier: role play of every conceivable variety works better with three (or more) lovers. Sure, there are lots of options for spicy scenes for couples only, but you can increase the complexity of the scene and add conflict and drama with more. The variety of costumes alone can ratchet your heartbeat higher.

For example, if you are doing “cops and robbers” you can have a cop, a robber, and the homeowner. You can have different characters in other stories—instead of just nurse and patient, add in a doctor, another patient, and so on.

Read: Planning Tips for BDSM Role Plays

3. Threesome Pony Play

If you and your lovers are into pony play, having more than one pony and a rider or groom is always an amazing way to indulge her inner show horse.

And if you love dress-up, there are plenty of butt-plug pony tails, saddles, and kinky accessories to make things come to life.

4. Experience Cuckolding

If you really get off on the humiliation of her taking another; lover, you can crank the heat to the next level by being present to clean up his mess afterwards.

Read: Tips for Watching Your Wife Have Sex 

5. Play Domination and Submission Games

If power play is the key to sexual excitement, imagine commanding two at once and ordering them to do exactly what you fantasize about.

Or maybe playing the sub to two tortuous blondes that have your balls in a vice is your fantasy du jour!

6. Have a Primal Threesome

Wild sex in the real world often takes place with a number of competitors on site. It can involve hunting, circling, biting, and competition.

Read: What Is Primal Kink?

7. Add Piss Play to Your Threesome

Golden showers are but one way to engage in the piss play fetish. Urine games get much hotter when you can watch two women wetting themselves together, or you can get soaked by both at the same time.

Consider playing in a sexy large size bathtub for easy cleanup.

8. Spanking Threesome Ideas

Spanking games are often very playful. Romp about with a paddle, chasing each other, or gang up two against one for a very thorough reddening of the buttocks.

You can have a selection of state of the art spanking supplies on hand, but even if it’s just a spatula from the dollar store, spanking is a lot of fun with three or more.

Read: How to Find Spanking Partners

9. Open a Pedi Salon

If you are one of the many men enchanted by a women’s feet, there is nothing hotter than handling her tootsies, helping her take her stilettos off, and giving those beauties a nice bubble soak and a coat of fresh paint.

With two girlfriends, you can indulge your pedicure fetish all the more—you get to service two ladies and four beautiful feet. After you’ve bathed and painted your lovers, enjoy watching them play footsie together, strut their stuff in sky-high heels and pantyhose, and let you rub your cock all over those arches.

10. Bondage Threesome Ideas

Shibari and other erotic arts of rope ties are about bondage and restraint, yes, but they are even more about aesthetics and beauty. This fascinating world of knots is visually stunning when one person is bound. Imagine binding two together?

A word of caution: If you are adding bondage and blindfolds to your threesome, keep things light unless one or all of you are experts. As gorgeous as this art is, it takes time to learn.

11. Play the Sissy

If you love being humiliated, dressed up as a girl or a baby, and fucked up the ass by a bad-ass chick, imagine her inviting Joan Jett to the party.

Imagine how hot it will be if both of your dommes sword fight with their strap-ons before taking you on all fours.

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12. Threesome Ideas for the Senses

Sensual, slow experiences like sensation play are wonderful ways to while away the hours and create intimacy. Why not indulge a trilogy and really amp up the heat?

Read: Kinky Threesome Positions to Try

13. Mind the Adult Babies

If you love to baby her and wrap her up in swaddling diapers, imagine two tangy toddlers at once! An adult play pen is better with two over-sized toddlers playing inside.read

Read: Kinky Confessions: Diapers, Threesomes, and Strap-ons

14. Wrestle with Oil

If you jack off to Twister and Nacho Libre, imagine getting busy in a tangled triangle. Oil wrestling is incredibly sensual—all those limbs, all that tension, all that slick and slippery sliding. Use a shower curtain on top of a few old sheets or blankets on the floor, and you are good to go!

15. Bring Out the Costumes

Role play can use all kinds of costumes, but cosplay can be just about the thrill of the aesthetic. Dressing up can of course go with other kinks—latex, leather, denim.

All three of you can just dress to impress—go burlesque, try on trashy ensembles, or go in a period piece. You can have theme nights—a bullfight scene with you as the matador and your ladies in flamenco costumes, or competing sex workers in a brothel and you as the gentleman caller.

Before you engage with someone new to try out these threesome ideas, be sure to read:

How Find a Kinky Third for Your Threesome

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