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Cuckold Tips: Watching Your Wife Have Sex

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Cuckold fantasies are hot nowadays. If you’re reading this, you must know what I’m talking about.

Are you dying to see your wife’s legs wrapped around another man’s back, while you sit by the bed and watch? Do you want to sit in an armchair, stroking yourself while watching her mouth on another man’s cock?

Maybe this other man is a friend, maybe he’s someone she has been fantasizing about, or maybe he’s a stranger? No matter what, there are some cuckold tips to make it all go smoothly.

4 Tips for Watching Your Wife with Another Man

If you still haven’t found the man for the job, be sure to see our article How to Find Cuckold Couples & Bulls.

1. Expect the Unexpected

As the old adage goes, your battle plan is only good until the first shot is fired. No matter how often you two have talked about it, things are bound to go differently when another person is in the bedroom. That’s the nature of other people, and the reason you want out of your old routine.

You and your wife may find yourself wanting different things once the sex starts. Maybe you want it to go further, and she doesn’t. Maybe she wants more, and you’re feeling weird about it. The communication beforehand will be helpful. But once it starts, what will happen will happen.

Before you invite a bull into your bedroom, be sure to read the cuckold tips in How to Find a Bull for Your Hotwife.

2. Remember, You are the Cuck

If you choose to let another man fuck your wife, and you are there watching, then you are the bottom of the pecking order. You can ask for things, but basically the other two get to decide if you get them or not.

The other man is there because you are not enough for your wife. If she tells you to clean up his mess, then you need to get down there and lick the cum away. You wanted it, you need to own it.

Read: Why Do Men Like Cuckold Play?

3. Let Them Finish, even If You’re Done

If you are stroking yourself and have an orgasm way too soon, that’s your problem. If your wife still wants to fuck, then she can fuck all night. Maybe part of the problem is that you have trouble lasting a long time, and that required outsourcing to another man.

If you’re not able to watch anymore then go in the other room, put your earbuds in, and feel sorry for yourself. She will come to you when she’s good and ready.

4. Negotiate Rules and Boundaries

Maybe you don’t have a full-on cuckold fetish. Maybe this is just a fantasy that your wife has finally agreed to fulfill.

If this is the case, it’s important to establish some guidelines. If she or you wants things to stop, and the other guy doesn’t get it, then you may need to intervene. Choosing a safe word that everyone will respect can prevent any misunderstandings.

The more you discuss boundaries and limits and expectations beforehand, the less likely it is that awkward and uncomfortable situations will arise. A night like this has the potential to be very hot, but like I said it can also get weird without thought and planning.

Want to share your wife, but not interested in watching? Perhaps you’d be more interested in the hotwife lifestyle.

Do you get off on watching your wife have sex with other men? Share your cuckold tips in the comments.

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