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Tips for Your First Group Sex Experience

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If you’ve never been in a threesome or larger group sex experience, it can be a bit nerve wracking and full of potential pitfalls.

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From my experience and candid conversations with friends, here are some tips that I hope will help you to not only make it through, but also enjoy the ride.

Group Sex Tips for Beginners

Choose one person you already know. Once you get the swing of things, you can go online to meet couples or other singles who are experienced. For now, try adding a third to your existing relationship or choose an adventurous friend to the mix. This will help calm the nerves and give you someone to debrief with.

Use a niche dating site. Finding group sex lovers on mainstream sites can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. Check out PolyamoryDate.com or CouplesDating.com where people living the poly lifestyle look for sexy group hookups.

Pick a comfortable setting. Spontaneous group sex can happen in the weirdest of places, trust me. For your first time, either host the get-together if home is where you would feel most at ease, or book a hotel room where privacy and discretion are accommodated.

Prepare mentally. Different strokes work for different folks when it comes to anxiety. For anything I’m nervous about, I like to go to the gym and work out a few hours before. This helps to calm my thoughts, and at the same time boost my confidence.

Prepare physically. You don’t need to go to the spa and get a Brazilian, but you do need to trim the hedges and clean yourself thoroughly. Shower and shave as close to your experience as possible. It would be a shame to turn the ladies off with a sweaty ball sac before anything has actually happened.

Discuss boundaries. This can be done back and forth in messages on a dating site or during a coffee meetup before you actually get down and dirty. Some individuals are okay to hang out, eat a meal and talk the night of. Do what works for you, but share your limits when it comes to kink, BDSM, anal, fetishes, role playing or anything else that you aren’t okay with.

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