Guys who love anal stimulation such as pegging or enemas, guys into submission and humiliation, and guys who get off on prostate stimulation are just a few of the men who enjoy being fisted.
Whether you’re just curious or have already experienced taking your girlfriend’s hand in your ass, here are some tips to maximize your enjoyment.
6 Tips for Getting Fisted by a Woman
1. Fist with Trust and Experience
You might be horny for the hottie who mistreats you because you love the abuse. I get it. But don’t get this vulnerable with someone you don’t trust. Your insides are necessary for many processes, not just sexual pleasure. Don’t get fisted by just anyone.
Someone you trust to take her time and cater to your needs is essential. Experience is also a good idea. You want her to know what she’s doing. Fisting has to be slow, and you want a glove to cover jagged nails and keep harmful bacteria out of your body (and off of her hands).
If the right woman for the job is not experienced in performing anal fisting, there are lots of instructional videos you can watch together. Don’t get your fisting how-to’s from porn for this one!
2. Practice Patience
You might want your GF to spread you open and fuck you hard, but your ass muscles resist that idea and need to warmed up first. Tearing them is dangerous—you don’t want to be incontinent, and you don’t want to be at risk for all kinds of bacteria and viruses.
If you’re a novice, you’ll want to open your ass slowly with a butt plug or starter finger, and get accustomed to the sensations of the muscles relaxing.
The process will go a bit faster if you’re experienced, but it’s still not something you just shove in without warning.
3. Prep with Lube and Gloves
The experience can be exquisitely pleasurable and trigger insanely intense orgasms. Since you want to reach that peak, rather than giving up before she gets inside, or rupturing something important and living in pain, use heaps of lube.
You need a lot of lube for a dick-sized dildo, and a LOT more for a whole hand.
4. Use a Beak Hand, not a Fist
Chances are, she knows this because it’s not her first rodeo if you’re about to receive. But just in case neither of you are aware—fisting is not “making a fist.” That would damage your butt hole and be really painful to get inside.
The beak hand, with all fingers touching to make a kind of bird, allows a gradual entry.
5. Try the Fisting Mitten
There are lots of fisting gloves. If latex is your thing, they’re hot as hell. But find the fisting mitten instead, especially if she’s new to this. It’s a mitten in the shape of the beak hand, making it easy to assume the correct position.
6. Add Your—and Her—Favorite Kinks
Getting your ass fisted is kinky enough, but it can be part of a lot more fetishes.
Not all guys who enjoy taking a hand up their keesters are submissive or into BDSM. It just feels good. But if you are into goddess worship, service, humiliation, restraint, bondage, sadomasochism, adult baby and sissification, it can be the peak of those experiences.
It’s incredibly hot to take her fist when she’s dressed up in nurse gear, silky French lingerie, or red rubber.
Don’t have a kinky girlfriend or fisting partner yet? Check out our guide to kink dating to find someone who shares you kink.
Getting fisted can be the pinnacle of all kinds of role play. Your imagination is the limit!
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