“l love having a woman mother me and put me in diapers. I like being dressed up as a little sissy girl in pretty dresses. I love when she makes me go out in public dressed like this, and when she makes me use the diapers I’m wearing. She will then tease me and change my diaper in front of people, telling them how I’m such a sissy girl. Everywhere that mommy goes, I will follow and be her prissy sissy princess.”
There are lots of kink crossroads—when two kinks overlap, making another. The adult-baby fetish and the sissy-boy fantasy are two different kinks, but they naturally come together.
Kink lovers into the adult-baby fetish may enjoy the fantasy of age regression, infant props like playpens and onesies, wearing and using diapers, as well as erotic lactation and adult-nursing relationships.
Some love this fantasy role for its comfort, while others take pleasure in being humiliated for being a bad little boy or girl, or being cleaned after a diaper accident.
The sissy-boy or sissy-girl fantasy might include submission to a fem-dom, or being feminized through spanking, receptive penetration, and punishment. Cross-dressing as a form of sexual humiliation, and penis mocking can also be part of the thrill.
Guys who get off on sissification by dominant women often fantasize or play with yummy mummies or milfs. Many have adult baby needs as well, and want to be nurtured and pampered in between bouts of domination and humiliation.
Sissification or sissy-boy play has a few powerful motivators. One is humiliation or submission, a common component of BDSM and what most people think about when they hear “kinky.” Another is goddess or female worship—this can be related to humiliation, but it is often its own draw. A third factor is the feminization aspect related to domination and submission—not being man enough, being a servant—but for some men who find women so powerfully arousing, it’s not just about degrading their manhood but taking on feminine characteristics.
Still another motivation is the joy of dress-up or looking pretty. Traditionally considered “feminine,” many gender-bending or nonbinary couples enjoy gender-queer role plays, but lots of traditionally masculine guys simply get off on the same thrill that lots of women do—wearing beautiful lingerie and makeup. It’s fun!
There are oodles of online outlets for sissification and adult-baby kinks, whether porn, dating sites, or sex toy stores. A guy like our reader who shared his fantasy might enjoy browsing specialty kink shops for diapers, baby outfits, adult strollers, pacifiers, and toys. He can also find niche couturiers who make adult sized versions of little-girl dresses, hair accessories, and more.
Feminization fetishes are popular for both men and fem-doms—this has always been true, and also reflects changing social norms as men and women are both freer to explore their deeper desires and experiment with gender in new ways.
Do you have a thing for wearing diapers, or mommy worship? Share if you dare!
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