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Getting Started in BDSM

Kink Lovers readers have left comments asking how to get started in BDSM. Newbies want to know where they can meet and

How to Write a BDSM Profile

Writing an online dating profile is difficult for everyone. Writing a profile for BDSM dating poses even more challenges. The keys to

BDSM School for Submissives

I’m curious – how do subs become subs? Do you think you always had a submissive personality previous to any sexual preference?

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BDSM Scene Negotiations

Meeting someone online for BDSM activities can be daunting and requires more preparation than your average date. When you find someone you’re

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BDSM Vacation Ideas

I was invited to attend a local munch club recently. Everyone was talking about their summer vacations and I wondered if the

BDSM Relationship Negotiations

Relationship negotiations are key to successful BDSM partnerships. Good communication at the beginning will lay a foundation that won’t easily be shaken.

BDSM Pre-Meeting Questions

BDSM relationships begin in many ways. Finding your ideal partner doesn’t usually happen at the local bar or health club. Many people

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Dominant Traits

New to the BDSM community? Are you a dom in training, or want to be. Here are traits required to be a

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Domination Styles

Not all sub/dom couples employ all forms of domination and it may take time to explore which style(s) work for them. Here