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Rimming Tips for Beginners

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Rimming (or the act of licking your partner’s anus) is a great way to spice up your oral sex routine. Men and women can both enjoy it, so even though I’m writing from the perspective of a male giver and a female recipient, feel free to mix it up.

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If you’re thinking of trying rimming for the first time, here are a few tips to keep in mind.

For the Recipient

Prepare Accordingly

This is essentially code for: clean your bum hole really well. Rimming isn’t the kind of thing you want to ask your partner to do at the spur of the moment. It requires preparation and a trust that there won’t be any nasty surprises.

Some folks prefer to give themselves a quick warm-water enema before engaging in any kind of anal play. It’s not a terrible idea, although knowing your body, and showering well before hand should be enough.

Communicate

Tell your partner how you like it. Offer guidance and encouragement because rimming doesn’t come naturally to everyone. In fact, it can take a few tries to get the hang of it and to grow comfortable with the idea of licking someone down there.

The first time I did it, I was worried about bacteria, but proper cleansing will take care of that. When I saw how much my partner loved it, I couldn’t wait to try it again!

For the Giver

Ease into It

Don’t jam your tongue in there like a soggy dill pickle spear. That can feel just about as awful as an unwanted finger. Be gentle and begin by making light circles around the outside of your partner’s anus.

If she’s really into it, try using a little more pressure, but with rimming, less is often more. If you want to intensify things, try increasing the speed of your tongue movements.

Be Present and Adjust Accordingly

Pay attention to your partner. Try not to get so wrapped up in the novelty of the act that you neglect to follow her guidance. Allowing someone to rim you requires a willingness to be vulnerable. It’s an expression of trust and can be really hot, if the connection is there and if the two of you are equally into it.

*Note: If you’re worried about germs or STIs, a dental dam or a condom that has been cut open can be used to create a barrier. Safety is always important.

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