How to Meet a Crossdresser Hookup
Over the years I’ve received a lot of questions from crossdressing men. Usually about how to find crossdresser hookups, with partners who are open to their predilection for wearing women’s clothing and lingerie.
They often don’t want to come right out about it on their dating profile or even on the first date, risking potential rejection.
No one likes surprises – crossdressers don’t want to find out that their crush is crushed to find out about their kink, and unwitting dates may be turned off to discover their man loves wearing Victoria’s Secret too.
I’m guessing the majority of  men who are into crossdressing prefer to keep this kink between themselves and their partner. In fact, I’m willing to bet that for every guy who’s open about his crossdressing and sporting women’s clothing in public, there are a hundred secret crossdressers.
Sadly, many never share their crossdressing fetish with anyone at all.
For all you crossdressing men out there, believe me when I say there are lots of people out there, both women and men, who would love to indulge you and who would find your crossdressing desires as sexy as you do.
You just need to find them.
My advice to you is to take your search online. Hitting the bar scene, you’re going to find it more than difficult to decipher who’s got panties on under their jeans or which girl is seeking a crossdressing boyfriend. But imagine this – you can join a crossdresser hookup site, create a profile that’s honest about your preference, and meet local crossdressers.
Best Crossdresser Hookup Sites
The following crossdresser sex sites are my top suggestions for meeting local CD lovers:
1. DateaCrossdresser.com
Date a Crossdresser has a good number of members, which is always key when choosing any hookup site. They offer all the usual features – search and favorite lists, plus some key features – the ability to block members or go into invisible mode if you just want to snoop around.
But he best thing about DateaCrossdresser.com is that it’s just for crossdressers and their admirers. It’s very straightforward and lacks video chat, but it’s narrow focus is what makes it a great starting point for meeting others who share your kink.
Before upgrading at Date a Crossdresser be sure to search and check out the profiles of members nearby. Nothing to lose.
2. FetishHookups.com
Are your tastes more on the wild side? Fetish Hookups is a kinky dating site that caters to all fetishes as well as those interested in BDSM and other kinks.
While not specifically crossdresser dating site, this is a very large community and offers a lot more features and ways to connect. Video chat, video introductions, topical chat rooms, member-created groups.. it’s all here.
If you like the idea of joining a fetish-positive dating community, or want a little domination and submission with your crossdressing, try this crossdresser hookup site first.
3. TSmeet.com
Even though TS Meet is a hookup site that features trans women, it’s also a major playground to meet local crossdressers and admirers.
TSmeet.com is the largest sex site in this niche and is fully-loaded with everything from crossdresser chat rooms to live member video, and is especially good for those who like the social element of member groups and blogs.
Be prepared for nudity. Like Fetish Hookups above, TS Meet allows full nudity and allows members to broadcast live. Enjoy!
My Own Crossdresser Hookup
I once dated a very masculine guy (a fire fighter no less) who found nothing more exciting than to slip into a pair of my panties or pulling on a pair of silky stockings.
I’ll admit, at first I was a little confused by his behaviour but as far as fetishes go this one is pretty tame. I quickly discovered it had nothing to do with his sexual orientation. (Note: most crossdressers are straight.)
And then I learned how exciting it could be for me as well. I would call him from work and instruct him to dress up for me. When I got home and found him sporting sexy lingerie, already hard and waiting, it was instant fireworks!
I’d love to hear about your crossdresser hookup experiences. Dare to share?
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