Roleplaying group sex can be tricky. If you’re trying it for the first time, you might find it awkward or corny to “pretend” you’re with someone you’re not.
Recently, my friend Jenn asked if I would play along with a group sex roleplay she’s kept hidden in her bag of dirty fantasies. She wanted to roleplay a scenario that involved her getting tag-teamed by anonymous cocks in a dark sex club.
We didn’t have the guys, or the booth, but there was more than enough filthy imagination between the two of us.
And that’s the key: to pull off a group or threesome roleplay without feeling “weird” about it, you have to dig deep into that part of your imagination that leaves no extra room for reality. Thanks to the nudity, no costumes are required — unless you do want to dress up in character.
Here are some roleplay tips we used to make her group sex fantasy come to life.
Tips for Roleplaying Group Sex
1. Keep it dark.
No light (or very low light) acts as a “mask.” By blocking your surroundings, it’s easier to pretend you’re someplace you’re not.
During a group sex roleplay, darkness not only blocks out any unwanted location-spoiling surroundings but also creates the environment you’re fantasizing about.
Go into any small room in your home, clear away junk and furniture, kill the lights, and — boom! You’re in a seedy sex club or in the dark with a third lover.
2. Blindfolds are even darker.
A complete blackout forces you to draw on your full imagination. The ensuing vulnerability never hurts, either.
Wearing a blindfold while getting tag-teamed lets everyone who drops in to your group sex fantasy know that you’re indifferent to whose cock is next in line. Nothing says “I’m offering up myself” more.
Read: 4 Sexy Ideas for Blindfold Fun
3. Kill the music or add sounds.
Silence will make you feel as though you’re having to be sneaky about the deed, perhaps in some hiding-place where you silently hope not to get caught. Better still, everything becomes about hot breath and close-to-the-ear whispers.
Music is not what you want if you’re looking to recreate a group sex scene. I’ve personally tried two different loops, both of which were effective. One was a porn clip filled with heavy breathing (and not much else) and the other was a sound effect of endless footsteps (which we thought contributed to the idea of guys lining up outside the door).
If all else fails, best to stick with breathing and silence.
4. Whose cock is that?
Keep extra cock-shaped dildos handy so your partner has to guess: A) when they’re getting tagged by a new cock, and B) when my cock takes over.
Here’s where those life-like cock-shaped dildos will shine. You can keep quietly opening and closing the door to create the illusion that guys are dripping in and out.
To dive into the anonymous role, Jenn kept asking for different cock. I’d plow her with different-sized cocks, sometimes two in her hole at a time. Once in a while, as she was ready to cum, I’d pull out the cock and open/close the door to make it seem like guys weren’t even bothering to wait for her to finish. That really got her hot.
I confess it takes practice, but I assure you that once you get the rhythm, you can be anyone you want in any kind of group sex roleplay.
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