Every man I’ve been with has expressed an interest in me doing a striptease. And for most, I have obliged. With a couple of drinks and the right music, it’s a fun and sexy form of foreplay. But what about dancing for us ladies, guys? Are you up for it? With the recent release and popularity of Magic Mike XXL, you might just be asked to dance down to your boxers or briefs… or maybe nothing! I know, I know, most of you say from the get-go, I don’t know how to or I don’t like to dance, but isn’t it worth it if it turns your lover on.
Here’s a few tips to get you in mood, and her too!
Practice Practice
This isn’t necessary for everyone, but if you really want to impress her with a thought out routine that might use props or the environment then go for a little pre-show practice when she’s not around. I love stripping for myself in the mirror, and think that’s why I have confidence when I do it for a lover. If you need a little inspiration check out the Magic Mike XXL trailer at the end of this post.
Set the Mood
Nobody wants to dance under bright lights. Get some candles, colored lightbulbs, or use a small lamp to create a warm atmosphere. This is especially good if you’re a little shy about your love handles or alike. Have your audience of one get comfortable on either the couch or bed. You want her to be close enough during your dance, where you can reach out and touch.
Choose Your Music
This should be something that is slow and sensual and something you know you can groove to. Trap music probably shouldn’t be your first choice. Marvin Gaye is classic, but if it’s a song or album you know well, then go with that. And you can always put it on a repeat if you think it’s a short song, and that you’ll still be dancing.
Go Slow, Baby
Taking your clothes off is only part of the allure and what will turn her on. She may giggle at your dance moves, but making a woman laugh (even at yourself) is a turn on. The more clothes you’re wearing the better the show, but keep your underwear on and let her takes those off last. Start with the small stuff like your socks and tie and belt… leaving the pants and shirt for last.
Have Fun
You can’t take yourself too seriously when you’re stripping for a woman. You don’t have to keep a serious face or be afraid to crack a laugh. It’s all about the effort, which is going to not only impress her, but likely turn her on. Approach her during your dance to gently caress, rub yourself against her, or plant a kiss. After you finish, you can undress your lover. Women love that!
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