I have a pretty beige sex life. I’m not terribly into BDSM, and I’d rather not bother with anal. As far as I’ve been able to determine, most of the women I date feel the same way.
That said, my desires are not completely devoid of some fun and games, and my wank fantasies often contain something a little less mainstream.
I have a bit of a pantyhose-in-high-heels, foot fetish thing going on. I enjoy watching porn where women masturbate in a candid sort of setting, while wearing clothes and stripping down to just nylons and shoes. By the end, her hose are down, she comes, I come… everybody comes!
That has translated well from porn to real life wherein a curious partner will inquire about what turns me on, and I say, “Well, those shoes are kinda sexy. Do you have any pantyhose you could put on?”
Sometimes it’s a little more spontaneous. She’ll be dressed up in a sexy dress with hose and some sweet heels. It triggers my high heel fetish and I’ll will be very turned on, and often the resulting sex is intense.
There’s also the newly discovered realization that I enjoy the odd footjob—no shoes in this case, just the nylons or bare feet.
Aside form the feet and pantyhose fetishes, I’ve also discovered that there’s some elements of bondage that are turning me on lately. I’m admittedly squeamish about a lot of what goes down in BDSM circles. I know it’s consensual and that safe words are used, but I don’t know if I could get immersed in some of the stuff I’ve watched.
With some testing of the waters, I’ve been able to find women who will entertain a little bit of rope play and mild flogging or spanking. No shibari escapades yet because I’m generally more turned on by the spontaneity aspect in my kink or fantasies, and that’s the same with bondage. Too much planning would take the fun out of it for me.
My current partner and I discovered we both had an interest in bondage and blindfolds. I checked out some sites to find out about knots, bought some rope, and brought it out one day saying it was here if she wanted to try. To my delight, it didn’t take long. A few hours later we found out that we were both extremely aroused by her having her legs and arms tied to the bed and me, well I’ll leave the rest to the imagination.
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