I recently expanded my phone sex business to include cam work, and let me tell you, it’s been illuminating. I love learning about human sexuality and all the things that get people off, and now I get a front row seat to the show!
One of my favorite clients is really into pegging. The other day he brought out the big guns. This thing had to be about two-feet long and at least ten inches in diameter. He warmed himself up a bit, then proceeded to lower himself onto it from the froggy position in a display that I can only describe as transcendental.
Here are some tips to help you achieve the same fantastical feat of anal penetration.
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4 Tips for Advanced Pegging
1. Know Your Anatomy
Just in case you (like me) hadn’t really thought about it before, when you stick a giant dildo up your ass, it doesn’t just enter your rectum, it goes right up into your large intestine, so lots of care and anatomical knowledge is required to do it safely.
Study diagrams of the colon. Be mindful of the fact that everyone’s body is different, and what works for some guy on the internet might not work for you. Going too long and deep without the necessary prep work, could lead to extreme pain—or worse yet—a ruptured colon, so take this step seriously.
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2. Clean Yourself Out Fully
When using a small dildo or butt plug, you might be able to get away with just a quick, low enema. Not so if you’re planning to go big. Take the time to really clear your colon out, using an enema kit, or by getting a colonic from a professional health care practitioner.
Some people inject mineral oil and water into their colon to ease the dildo’s passage. I would seek out a professional’s opinion before trying that. Also, don’t deep throat your giant dildo after it’s been in your, or someone else’s, ass. It doesn’t matter how squeaky clean your insides are, you could still end up with Hepatitis or e-coli poisoning.
3. Use Lube, Lube, and more Lube
I bet you saw this coming. Anytime the subject of anal penetration comes up, lubrication should be the first thing that comes to mind. NEVER attempt to inset a dry object into an asshole. It’s such a delicate part of the body, and anal fissures are no joke!
When going big, choose a lube with lots of staying power. Coat the dildo and your asshole liberally and be ready to reapply when needed. To prevent an allergic reaction, be sure to test any lube you have never used before on a small area of skin before going full throttle with it.
4. Ease into It Slowly
Speaking of full throttle, you’ll want to build up to that, as taking it slow is the best way to learn about your body’s limits. Start with a small dildo or butt plug, then work your way up from there. It might take months to reach the point where your ass can take anything even approaching huge. Don’t rush it.
Be prepared to acquire an extensive collection of toys. Practice makes perfect, so don’t worry if you’re not making consistent gains. Your body will tell you what it needs, so listen.
Do you love pegging? Please share your tips for going big in the comments!
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