The following kinky confession comes from a man who made the mistake of not clearing his porn history. In this case, it was a happy accident!
I have to confess as a 40-yr-old man I love wearing pantyhose and getting pegged. It only happened once before I got married, but I’ve kept it a secret from my wife.
Not long ago, I came home from work, got in the shower and heard her come in. She greeted me in the bedroom wearing a leather top and pants, with a large strap-on cock. She was holding a whip and restraints. She told me to put them on, explaining that she saw my porn search history: bondage, femdom pegging, crossdressing pantyhose, chastity play.
She tied me spread eagle on my back. Then she pulled out a chastity cage, and put it on me. I was so excited that my hot ass wife was going to make me her bitch. After teasing my locked cock, she untied me and told me to put on pantyhose. They felt great and my cock was straining in its cage. She was rubbing my legs, pressing her cock against my ass. Then she pushed me onto the bed, grabbed my hands and tied them behind my back, looping part of the rope around my neck to keep my hands away from my ass.
She spanked me with different things and my ass was on fire. I begged her to stop. Then I felt her rip the hose and lube my ass crack before she straddled my legs and pushed her cock inside. It hurt and I yelled out, so she pulled it out. I thought that was it, until she shoved a ball gag into my mouth and said, “You’re my lil bitch now, and I’m going to fuck you…” I almost came in my cage right there. She loved being in control, and I am in heaven wearing pantyhose and getting my ass pounded. – R
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Not all of the porn we watch is based on our fantasies, but most of it is. We often watch what we can’t have, or what we think we can’t have. Our reader was likely worried that his wife would think negatively about what turns his crank, so kept his fantasies just that, fantasies. Here are tips that can help you act out, in real life, your porn fantasies.
4 Tips to Act Out Your Porn Fantasies
1. Share the Porn with Your Lover
You can wait until she finds your porn search history, but most women don’t care what you watch, as we have our own search history. I think the odds of having your fantasy come to life only increase if you tell or show her what you watch and explain why it turns you on.
Read: 5 Benefits of Watching Kinky Porn
Depending on your fantasies, there’s a good chance she might indulge some of what you watch. The more you know your lover’s own sexual fantasies, the more you’ll know what to share and what to hold back (forever or for a later reveal as things build in the kink department).
2. Join a Niche Dating Site
You may not have a partner right now, so online dating is your best tool in finding a kinky lover. Do you watch group-sex porn, femdom porn, CBT or electroshock porn? The farther you get away from mainstream pornography, the less likely you are to find a partner to act those scenes out with on mainstream dating sites.
Take a look at the Best Kink Dating Sites to meet your match!
3. Modify Your Fantasy for Solo Fun
Let’s say that you’re looking for kinky partners, but it’s taking time. Or maybe you have a vanilla lover who is NOT going to join your kink party any time soon. There are plenty of options for going it alone.
Read: 5 Ways to Play Alone
If you watch a lot of strap-on, you can play a femdom video while inserting something in your anus (a butt plug or dildo with balls will prevent any mishaps.) If you watch orgasm denial, practice on yourself, trying to see how many times you can edge to the brink before coming. While nothing will be the same as having a kinky lover present, most fetishes and fantasies can be modified if you have a good imagination.
4. Hire a Sex Worker
It’s not always easy to meet women for hookups, and because many kinks take a certain amount of trust, it can take time to build that trust before your porn fantasies have a chance to come to life.
If you want what you want sooner than later, take the plunge and hire a sex worker. This doesn’t have the same stigma attached that it once did. It doesn’t mean that you are desperate, it just means that you have a specific fantasy (that you watch often in porn) that you want to enact. Sex workers also have boundaries, but many have great flexibility when it comes to fulfilling fantasies. And if your scene involves a dominatrix, there are many of those for hire too.
What is your ultimate porn fantasy scene you’d like see brought to life?
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