Looking for some fun ideas to incorporate a dildo into your kink play?
There are still too many guys who don’t see the need for a dildo. Although most men, especially open-minded guys in the kink or poly communities, get how a dildo is a necessary part of a woman’s sexuality and a useful tool for masturbation, some still have the mentality that there’s no need to duplicate what they’ve already got.
Smart men understand that their cock isn’t competing with a dildo, and that incorporating penetrative tools into your kinky life has unlimited ways to bring each other pleasure. It’s not just for women to masturbate with when you’re away—there are many imaginative ways to play together with a dildo.
How to Get Kinky with a Dildo
Here are a few fun things to try!
Keep things going when you’re done.
Just because you’re finished or exhausted, it doesn’t mean the party is over. You can prolong sex to her orgasm if you came first, and it gives you time to recharge your batteries.
For threesomes, it has added utility—you don’t have enough dicks for every hole waiting.
Indulge the voyeur inside you.
If watching someone get off gets you off, ask her to put on a show for you. I love warming up this way, before getting into the one-on-one because it really heightens arousal.
I also love “going all the way” completely hands off—I’ll fuck myself start to finish while you jerk off watching me.
Sex usually means touching, so the twist of wanting each other so badly and being so close adds an unexpected dimension—explosive orgasms guaranteed!
If you’re the one who loves being watched, penetrating your ass for her pleasure or at her command is so transgressive and hot.
Let her take charge while you play submissive.
Get that dildo into a strap-on harness, and get down on your knees! Or maybe you prefer that I make love to you slowly, tenderly, eventually pushing my cock all the way inside of you.
Penetrative sex toys aren’t just for her.
Experiment with size training.
Admit it, you love the idea of a woman taking a big cock. If you’re average, you’ve probably fantasized about her being able to take something bigger.
You can enjoy your fantasy through sex toys, and trust me, she will too. Get a variety of sizes, starting with something as tiny as your pinky finger. Increasing arousal with each new instrument of penetration will make her vagina expand and stretch. Take it slow with each successive cock, and get ready to hear her cum like you’ve never heard before.
Go full tilt with double penetration.
If you want more anal, get a dildo to keep in her pussy while you work on her ass. Women don’t usually like anal instead of the usual. It’s when we’re so aroused that we need even more than the best.
Keeping her vagina aroused, engorged, and satisfied is the key to successful anal sex. Plus, it feels so good for you when you penetrate her ass—feeling how full she is with the dildo on one side and your cock on the other.
What’s your favorite way to enjoy a dildo with your lover?
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