Tips for a Kinky Quickie

When I think of kinky sex, I visualize elaborate set-ups involving whips, chains and PVC. I’m sure I’m not alone in this, as kink often does require a bit of equipment and pre-planning.

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What if you and your partner just don’t have a lot of time? We all have busy lives, right?  There’s got to be some way to enjoy a bit of sex on the go while still satisfying your kinky desires. Here are few tips to help with that.  

Set the Mood ahead of Time

Try sexting each other the details of what you plan to do when the moment strikes. Much of sexual pleasure comes from the anticipation of it and the feelings we attribute to actions in the moment. Set the scene long before you meet so that your thoughts will be primed for ecstasy.

Try a surprise sext, or a suggestive comment as you both go about your routines. Keep that up for the day, or even just a few hours leading up to your date, and you’ll both be so ready for each other that you might barely get your coats off before tying on the ball gag.

Don’t Wait until You Get Home

If your timing is tight but you’re so turned on by all your above-mentioned sexting, there’s nothing wrong with choosing an out-of-the-way spot like a public washroom or secluded park bench to have a little sexy fun.

If doing it in public isn’t kinky enough, you might want to mix in a little role play or orgasm denial, whatever does it for you. Let the memory of being so hot for one another that you just couldn’t wait to get home and between the sheets, fuel more fantasies in the weeks to come!

Use Limited Time to Your Advantage

Try to make your partner cum fast and hard. You only have five minutes in which to rock each others worlds, so you better make it good! In times like these, there’s no room for pretense.

You need your partner to cum for you before the train makes its stop at your destination (you’re doing it in the washroom on the train into work, obviously.) She’s going to cum when you say it’s time, or she won’t cum at all. You get the idea.

Work in a Quickie Role Play

I touched on this a bit before, but certain role plays really lend themselves to time restrictions. Think of the old standby of plumber or electrician meets the lonely housewife. Better hurry up before her husband gets home.  

I’m sure there are some far less sexist versions of this game that you can create from the deepest desires of your own mind. Just think of an example where getting caught doing something so wrong would make you feel so excited. It’s a scenario that varies from person to person, so try a few things out to see what really does it for you.

*Note: Even though you’re in a hurry to get the job done, it’s really important that you don’t rush past those elements that make your sexy fun consensual and safe. Always make sure that you and your partner are both comfortable and prepared for things before you start. It never hurts to fantasize and talk about what you want to try ahead of time.