The other night my partner and I were in bed together when he suggested I close my eyes. I thought he was going to kiss me, but instead he went straight for my nipple and the surprise of it almost made me cum right there on the spot.
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Ever since then, I’ve been thinking about blindfolds and how we might incorporate one into our sexy explorations. Here are a few of the ideas. Let me know what you think!
1. Incorporate Temperature Play
Temperature play is fun and sexy all by itself, but adding a blindfold to the mix takes it to a whole new level. Whether you’re using ice cubes and hot wax or less extreme items like cold spoons and warm breath, a blindfold gives you the opportunity to surprise your partner and keep her body on the edge of wanting more.
If it’s your first time trying it, take things slow. Agree upon the items you’ll use and don’t throw in random surprises. It’s important to build a foundation of trust. Once established, you and your partner might agree on a more improvised approach, but it needs to be a mutual decision.
2. Bring Out the Body Paints
Paint words and pictures on your partner’s body, and ask her to guess what they are. Focus on creating a sensual experience of it, running your brush tip over her most sensitive areas.
Choose an edible paint so that you get your lips and tongue in on the action. Create a reward system for when she guesses right, or a punishment for when she doesn’t.
3. Try Mutual Masturbation
Masturbating in the presence of a partner can be so hot, but it can also feel awkward and embarrassing. Putting on a blindfold is a great way to help shed your inhibitions as it takes away the visual reminder that you’re being watched and allows you to focus inward on the pleasure you’re experiencing.
Being blindfolded can also enhance the auditory side of things, allowing you to get more out of your partner’s experience as she moans her way to climax.
4. Tease and Surprise
This is more of a general suggestion to use when trying any of the above techniques. Blindfold play is by far the hottest when it incorporates elements of surprise. This is not to say that you should surprise your partner with something totally unexpected or dangerous, though as long as it’s consensual, to each your own.
It’s more that the whole experience is better if you can do things in an intentional way, teasing her by coming close but not quite touching, or drawing away from what you know will please her, only to come back to it later in an unexpected twist. The whole point is to keep her guessing and to build the excitement in a safe and trusting way.
What suggestions do you have for incorporating a blindfold in the bedroom? Let us know in the comments!
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