Penetration is an immensely satisfying act to give or receive in any orifice. Many men enjoy being on the receiving end of a dildo via a lady in a strap on, or as part of BDSM play, receiving training to accommodate a variety of objects and sizes.
Certainly the idea of pushing your cock or a reasonable facsimile into a woman’s vagina or asshole is ever popular—most couples don’t consider sex to be sex without it, and porn for both vanilla and kinky folks is often centered around it.
Getting fucked is sometimes even better than being the top! Sometimes this is because the symbolism of being inside another or to have them inside you is so potent and intimate. But sometimes it’s just because it feels so good to stick something up your ass!
If you don’t have a willing partner, or you’re flying solo tonight, you don’t have to forego the thrill of deep penetration. Women figured out a long time ago that they could bone themselves with a smoothly worn tusk or suitably shaped stone. Such toys have been found that date back thirty thousand years! You can enjoy the benefits of a dildo as often as you want to get fucked, even if you are on your own at the moment the desire arises.
Anal penetration of the male is oddly still considered kinky by some, but if you’re like me and find it fairly vanilla, no matter—solo masturbation is also a great way to explore extreme penetration. There is no one to better train your asshole to receive bigger and better than the person you trust the most—yourself. You can go at a snail’s pace, or ram a dildo as forcefully and strong as you can take it.
If you’ve never fucked yourself, it might seem tricky to get a backdoor pass if you’re not super flexible. But forget about acrobatics for now and go with comfort—you don’t have to be a contortionist. Many men find missionary positioning from the bottom easy—just lay on your back, and bend your knees or even pull them up a little and voilà —easy access. This one’s a bonus because you can rub your cock too.
My favorite position for masturbating this way is kneeling and reaching behind. Put a few pillows or some yoga props between your calf and thigh for support. (You can sit on the toilet instead of kneeling but that’s not always the sexiest place to fuck yourself!)
You can find toys that are short and not too wide, and you can find King-Kong-sized rubber phalluses, whatever suits your pleasure.
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Keep in mind there’s a reason anal sex toys are different from dildos for vaginas—that flared base keeps the toy from getting sucked into your intestines. You might feel you don’t need that, but your anal muscles are very strong and they can contract against your intentions, locking something in that will be very hard and possibly damaging to get out. So stick with the flared-base toys created for the purpose!
Orgasms are super intense when you are being penetrated, and there’s no reason to deny your lifetime lover—you—the very best!
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