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How to Be an Exhibitionist without Really Trying

Couple Having Sex against Wall

I truly accept my body and admittedly enjoy flaunting it with my lovers, and even strangers on occasion! It’s a private thrill, a kink if you will. My current beau calls me an exhibitionist, but I’m not so sure I would use that word to define my behavior. I’ll let you be the judge.

I’ll share a few activities I enjoy, that give both myself and my boyfriend a thrill.

Exhibitionist Ideas for Kink Lovers

Nudism at Home

Not everyone is comfortable walking around the house naked. But the more you do it, the more liberating it is. I enjoy naked cleaning and cooking. If my lover is over, I’ll wear just a skimpy little apron tied around my waist, stand on tip toes to dust high places, and bend over while vacuuming. If he’s been a good boy, I’ll even wear heels!

Striptease Surprise

When I’m away from my lover for days at a time, I’ll choreograph a striptease to a song I know he likes. It’s a fun way to exercise, as I’ll put in lots of squats and bends, as well as yoga moves that are very enticing. This usually leads to masturbating while practicing, or mutual masturbation when the final performance concludes.

Shower Fun and Games

If you don’t have showers together, get together and do it! It’s a great way to reconnect in a long-term relationship or build intimacy in a new one. Running your hands over your lover’s slippery naked body is a total turn on. Sex in the shower can be a challenge, so only go for it if you are comfortable and safe. We also like to touch each other through the plastic if only one of us is in there.

Dare to Share

I don’t suggest gallivanting naked through your neighborhood, but there’s nothing wrong with walking around your home with the curtains or blinds partially drawn. I actually don’t have either on my bedroom windows, so I wouldn’t be surprised if a neighbor has seen something at some time. I don’t go out of my way to show my body in front of the windows, but it’s just the idea that someone might catch a glimpse that gives me a little tingle.

Take It on the Road

This isn’t something to plan, but rather about being open to the spontaneity of exhibitionism. On a road trip last summer with my boyfriend, we stopped on a country side road to check our maps. Before you knew it, I was giving him a blowjob. We then took it outside, with me bent over the trunk. A car drove by and our hearts almost stopped. This awesome memory is now burned into our brains!

What gives you an exhibitionist’s thrill?

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