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Why Sex in Public Is So Hot

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Chances are, when you’re reminiscing about especially hot sex memories, one or more of them entail that time you did it in public.

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Sex in public places is more often than not awkward, funny, and incomplete, and yet most of us place those occasions at the top of the hotness hierarchy.

Sex in public deviates from our normal routine.

Even doing it in the living room instead of the bedroom differentiates a sexscapade from the regular routine. There’s nothing wrong with the bread and butter of what we do, of course, but any variation stands out in our minds.

We remember things that differed from our standard everyday life.

There’s an element of danger that adds a thrill.

I remember once crouching behind some bushes with my skirt hiked up, and my friend with benefits fingering me so tantalizingly slow that I was almost crying. My heart was also pumping because I was on the lookout for the night security guy. I could see his flashlight swinging across the park and was at the ready to cover up.

There were other kinds of danger too. Something about how seedy it was to make love where people got high, and men were known for cruising. The whole thing had a seductive underworld feeling to it, and it felt dangerous.

The fact it is forbidden, either by law or social convention, takes the stakes even higher.

Agoraphilia is a bona fide kink.

Some people are sexually aroused by doing it outside, or just by the outdoors and nature itself.

Sex in public ties in with other kinks.

Sex in public can be a thrill for someone who is an exhibitionist. And if the idea of getting caught is terrifying and not what gets you off, people who have a kink for concrete, cars, beaches, or any number of things can get an extra kick from sex in a public place if they find the right setting.

The implication is that you were so horny for each other that you just couldn’t wait.

You had to devour each other everywhere, all over, anywhere, and waiting for a more reasonable location was out of the question. Or you were’t waiting until you got home, because you would just do it again there!

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