Women Who Love Men Who Love Men
A buddy of mine called last weekend in a bit of panic. He had stumbled upon something he’d been positive didn’t exist—his girlfriend’s cache of porn.
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For years, William had wanted to share his favorite steamy scenes with his girl but had always been given a cold shoulder. So he had just assumed that like a lot of women, Lisa just didn’t care for the hard stuff.
But now he had discovered the mother load—sort of.
I wasn’t particularly surprised. Some girls do find porn a turn off, but I think more find it a private pleasure. Porn is something they enjoy when their man isn’t at hand.
This wasn’t what had unnerved him. It was the content. Raunchy films made for—and featuring—gay men fucking.
“Why on earth would women have a thing for gay porn?” he asked. “Give me one good reason why she’s obsessed with dudes doing dudes.”
7 Reasons Women Like Gay Male Porn
1. The Guys Are Hot
It’s not rocket science. Gay porn actors are sexy. Their audience expects them to be sexy. This isn’t always the case in straight porn, where straight men—the main market—aren’t looking at the men. They just want to see chicks getting banged. Many prefer average actors, which plays into the fantasy that normal dudes can get in on the action.
2. We Don’t always Need to See Babes
There’s not much I love looking at more than a beautiful naked woman. Except maybe a hot naked man or two.
3. Romance is Romance
The biggest demographic for Brokeback Mountain was heterosexual women. Sure, the men were hot. But we love love stories, and the idea that men have the same kind of emotional intensity that women do sells romance novels by the millions, so it can sell a gay love story, too.
4. Gay Porn Is Hot because It’s Something You Won’t Do
Just like two chicks is something you want to see, sometimes we want to see an orgy of gorgeous guys. Even when you do have a MMF threesome, it’s not usually so she can watch the two of you get each other off. In gay porn movies, she’s living that dream.
5. It’s Transgressive
Gay porn is hot for her because SHE isn’t welcome. It’s not always because YOU won’t go there, but because she can’t. And just like guys sometimes chase the girl they can’t get, rather than the one throwing herself at them, sometimes the rejection makes us want to be there all the more. These taboos and crossing boundaries can be an extremely arousing fantasy.
6. Variety Is the Spice of Life
We’re curious and dirty minded and excited by unexpected things just like you are.
7. She’s Kinky
For some women, all of these reasons come together in a bona fide fetish or kink. The nature of the kink means it’s something she can’t ever be a part of, and for some, that’s great, because it’s a voyeur thing. Even if watching men getting off is essential to her sexuality and pleasure, she wouldn’t be with you if she didn’t enjoy what you do together—so don’t worry about it.
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