Does the thought of watching pee run down her leg make your dick explode? Or do you love to spray piss on her face, buttocks, or pussy when you’re getting it on?
Urophilia is the erotic fascination with urine, commonly known as “golden showers” or “watersports” in the fetish and kink communities.
If urine is your turn-on and you happen to be bisexual, you won’t find it difficult to hook up for piss play because lots of guys love it. But it can be tough to find a lady friend into the game because most people with this fetish happen to be men.
Tips to Explore the Golden Shower Kink
- Understand this fetish is not for everyone. You’re more likely to find a woman who is willing to be open minded for you, than you are to find a woman who is particularly turned on by piss. Looking at the situation realistically, take your best shot when you’re with a girl who really wants to do anything for you. Make it fun for her by letting her know how much she turns you on.
- Look for a hookup or partner who is into submission or domination, depending whether you like to piss on her or be pissed only her. It’s a good idea to seek out BDSM relationships for girl-on-guy urine sports. While her fetish might not be piss-specific, it will be turned on by the power dynamics at play.
- Get creative to keep her engaged. Mix up golden shower play with voyeurism, exhibitionism, dirty talk, and roleplaying.
- Introduce her to new orgasmic joys. I can tell you that urine became a bigger turn-on in my repertoire after a boyfriend showed me one way to make my orgasm a thousand times more intense—drinking water and holding it in, then timing it to come when I couldn’t hold out anymore. There’s a whole world of bladder and orgasm training out there, by the way, that you might enjoy if you’re not already familiar with it.
- Play it safe. Urine is NOT sterile. It’s an old myth but it’s still false. Piss is not sterile and it’s not safe to drink, so consume it at your own risk. These myths come from times of emergency—if you’re lost in the desert with no oasis in sight, it is better to recycle your urine than dehydrate to death. In the short term, this can be lifesaving. Many piss lovers do drink urine, so one way to make it slightly safer is to give your partner a lot of water beforehand, diluting the pee as much as possible. Watch out for open wounds, despite the myth that pissing on sores cleans them. Piss is naturally loaded with bacteria, not sterilizing as many still think.
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