I’ve experimented with piss play from time to time and had some fun, but golden showers were never really my cup of pee.
However, last weekend I ended up in a self-pleasuring marathon after some kinky porn compilations of women pissing themselves. It got me turned on so hard and hot.
It was an amazing reminder that the erotic spirit is ever changing. For newcomers to the piss play and water-sport fetish, there are a number of ways to incorporate urine play into sex.
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1. The Golden Shower
Pissing on your partner may be an act of animal dominance and territorial marking, and having her piss on you might be an act of submission or humiliation. So the golden shower is often part of domination and submission games.
The piss fetish can also be about the substance itself or about body fluids in general.
Go ahead, urinate on each other for sexual pleasure. That’s what it’s all about.
Read:Â How to Enjoy the Golden Shower
2. Piss Inside Her
While pee itself is neutral for me—I don’t really have a “thing” for the stuff—I have found it incredibly arousing to experience a man pissing inside me. There’s something about that sudden flood of warm, and the feeling of being filled up.
Do not just start pissing inside a partner without talking about it first. There are a few problems with this—urine isn’t meant for inside her vagina, and there’s a real risk of changing the delicate microbial balance there.
Also, it’s hard to pee with an erection and hard to stay in her vagina without one, so it can take some practice that is almost tantric to make one or the other possible.
You can read more about this experience and other piss play adventures in Golden Shower Stories.
3. Pissing Her Pants
One aspect of the piss fetish that is extremely popular is the idea of a woman (or a man) peeing their pants. Wearing cut-off jean shorts or a racy thong, then having “an accident” where the wetness spreads over the clothes.
Why is this so hot for kinky piss play, or for voyeurs always looking for another kind of eye candy?
I think it’s very simple—the idea of her losing control.
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4. Watching Her Piss
Similar but separate to watching a woman pee her pants is watching her take a piss. A stolen glance as she sits on the toilet.
A wistful longing from me, as I admire a stallion standing at the roadside and creating a forceful arc of urine landing in the grass.
Some like to watch the simple mechanics of it close up rather than the overall view. Seeing the stream come out of the tiny hole you can’t get into, watching it come out of your cock like cum does.
Read: Pee Fetish: Learning to Love Pee Play
5. Piss Drinking
Some piss players want to drink urine. Imbibing a partner’s fluids is just another way of consuming them, of having each other’s fluids deep inside you.
Some like the fountain effect, where piss happens during oral, and you or she laps it up like a thirsty dog. Others like to put their partner’s pee in a tea cup or bottle and sip it like wine.
Is this form of piss play safe? Not really.
Piss drinking isn’t the worst thing you can do, but urine is waste and consuming much of it is not really a good habit to get into. Try limiting your consumption to a taste, and let the rest spill over your lips and mouth without swallowing too much.
Read:Â Pee Drinking Fetish: Urophagia as Kink
There is literally a cult of folks who advocate piss drinking for health, based on the fallacy that urine is sterile. It’s not—it is bodily waste. Their assumptions are only true if you are dying of thirst in the desert, in which case any liquid is of benefit.
You can lower the risk by having your partner drink large quantities of water to make her piss less concentrated.
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