An exploration into the wet world of spit fetish.
I was surfing the internet enjoying some artsy short films when I came across a four minute horror movie called Drool.
I’d never heard of Jeremiah Kipp, this independent filmmaker of dark cinema. I’m not usually one for horror films but this was a lot artier than the average flick.
Still, it was even more disturbing… beautiful people half naked and dripping saliva all over each other, and moving about in the slippery goo.
Saliva and Spit Fetish
Just why so many of us find drool or saliva repugnant is hard to say. Keeping the mouth moist is a pretty good idea— thanks, Mother Nature!
But some are totally turned on by saliva and have a bonafide spit fetish. They are sexually aroused by drooling, spitting, or sloppy blowjobs. Every spit kink is different.
The very idea of lobbing a wad of drool at someone—spitting—has long been symbolic of showing disgust for the target. That glob of drool is experienced as gross and demeaning. This is where the spit fetish meets games of domination.
A cum fetish is another fixation on human secretions.
Spit Swapping
Even without a spit or drool fetish, saliva always enters into things.
When we are super attracted to someone or in love with them, we spend hours swapping spit in some weird urgency to mingle and exchange our saliva. We want to roll our tongues around together, and later we want their drool to lubricate our cocks and pussies.
For most of us, this mouth to genital intimacy is so important that we won’t stay in a relationship with someone who will only have sexual intercourse the penis-in-vagina way. We want that saliva!
The short film Drool was mildly erotic, but I highly doubt it was meant to cater to a spit fetish. Even so, it’s arty erotic vibe twisted in around my ick factor like a French kiss. Which got me thinking how for some people, the saliva thing is an actual thing.
Two Kinds of Spit Fetish
Did you know? There are two distinct fetishes for drool—probably more.
People can have a thing for spit, or they can have a thing for saliva, and it’s not the same thing!
The arousal trigger is different for each.
Spit or Swallow?
Those with a saliva fetish are turned on by qualities in the spit—it’s lubricating silkiness, its wetness, its scent, or whose mouth it comes from. They like to rub their hands, face, mouth, and genitals in the substance for the tactile sensations and the essence of the saliva donor.
Those with a spit fetish have a different reason—they want to be spit on to be degraded or humiliated by the object of their affection.
It’s still about receiving the essence, but the trigger of arousal is in the act of humiliation, not in the warm slimy feeling of the spit itself.
This is often called spitting domination.
Slippery When Wet
Considering what I see in porn, if you’re into threesomes, you might be lucky enough to see two hotties lick each other’s titties into slippery heaven, then rub them together for your delight.
Drooling into each other’s wide open mouths seems to be a thing, too—watch it, or ask her to do it for you.
The big problem with getting freaky for drool fetish is that the mechanics of salivating don’t really serve the purpose of the spit fetish. We can come up with very little spit at a time, certainly not enough for fantasies where buckets and hoses feature in.
Ever try filling a small cup with saliva? For the purpose of this blog post I did, and it’s impossible.
Spit Fetish Dating
If watching naked people play while covered in saliva is your thing, porn is probably your best bet.
If you want to meet someone who will indulge your fetish, or has a saliva kink of their own?
Try spit fetish dating at FetishHookups.com.
Do you have a spit fetish? Dare to share in the comments.
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